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Tattered and Mended – #BookReview #litfuse


How can the wounds that keep us from living the life we want to live be mended and healed? In Tattered and Mended, Cynthia Ruchti walks readers through a gallery of reclaimed and restored art as well as broken and restored lives of those who have gone before us. With a gentle touch and personable wisdom, Cynthia shows how even the most threadbare soul can once again find healing and hope.

I missed the blog tour of this book due to internet and hardware issues.  I apologize to the author for that and to Litfuse.  I am so bummed about not being able to share all the giveaways with you.   However, go on over to Cynthia Ruchiti’s website at the following link and read all about what’s been going on with the release of this book!  Check it out here

I have to admit while reading this book, I have not been able to concentrate t red ate on it. BUT THAT THAT’S JUST ME.
But that being said, I love Cynthia’s concept of our lives are just like art and when we will not treat ourselves with respect. We become Tattered and Mended.
However,through God, we can always be made whole I’d we put the effort into it.
The writer talked about an old oil painting and how it needed to be repaired
As the artist was repairing it, they had to take goggles like a neurosurgeon might use to be able to get the finest aspects of the painting just right.
Except the signature. They never touch the signature
god’s salvation is like His signature. It can never be touched. However to live our lives in a repaired frame of mind, we are under constant repair.
Our hearts, our minds, our bodies. They are God’s work and while he is only perfection. We choose to break his will and therefore become Tattered and Mended


(this is not part of my review, but came directly from the book.  However, it is too good not to mention) I have read, reread and printed, placed in my Bible etc.  This is some good stuff right here.

Tattered and Mended Notes and Conclusions

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The more I deal with FitBit as a company, the more and more I love them.  They have the BEST customer service of any company I have ever dealt with I do believe.

I lost my charger for my One. I had sent an email, asking where I could buy one and hadn’t gone to the website because I wasn’t being able to browse at that time, but had their customer service email in my phone. I got an email today that says “your order is on its way” They have sent me a new one!!! JUST exactly the same thing happened when I lost the actual tracker. Fitbit has an amazing customer service policy. On neither issue, did I ask for a replacement. To me this is excellent customer Service.

This little machine, packs a powerful punch. Not only does it track my steps like a pedometer, it links to MyFitnessPal, which also has a food diary, a water tracker and then it syncs with the iPhone Health Vault and Microsoft Health and then I can sync One Touch Verio Glucometer to the Microsoft Health Vault and all in all I have some pretty major medical records at the ready every single time I go to the doctor.

I have been so impressed with my smart phone and the accessories that I have at my fingerprints, just in a few apps.

It all starts with the FitBit One Tracker. Here it is in and out of the box and my tracker itself PART_1438135814375_PhotoGrid_1438132237954My Fitbit, usually lasts about 6 days on a charge. I love that it has the time on it. With the push of a button, I get the time, steps I have walked and then calories burned based on my steps and food diary.. When I sync my Tracker, on the dashboard, I get all the above as well as sleep patterns if I choose to record them, and any other information I would choose to record, like steps, weight, steps for a week, water intake, food intake, activity log, goals, and there are some other options to choose from on the dashboard.

With my FitBit, there is a silent alarm that I can set that goes off at the same time every day. I have it set for 6 pm, because of the daylight savings time, I am very bad about not eating at the right times at night. Because it’s so light, I still think I have a long time to go before bedtime. This alarm, vibrates on my shoulder because I wear the Tracker clipped to my shirt all the time. When I feel that alarm go off, I know I need to go get something to eat. Because I am diabetic, I must eat at least 3-5 times a day depending on the meal. This alarm helps me to not forget to eat. There are so many other little things about this Tracker that I love, like its size and not having to wear it on my wrist. I have a FitBit finder on my phone (have used both IOS and Droid versions and both work wonderfully) and if I ever lose it, then I can usually find it within an hour or so. The finder syncs with the Tracker by Bluetooth. Now that being said, if the battery is dead, this won’t work. However, you can also find the last time it did sync on your dashboard and then between that and the other options you have a better chance of finding it. PART_1438135833596_PhotoGrid_1438131769643PART_1438135835235_PhotoGrid_1438131867893

Things happen. But ideally, you don’t lose it!

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Where The Light Is #CDReview #FCBloggers


I was given the privilege to listen and review a CD by Dan Bremnes.  When I was told I was accepted to this, I had never heard of him before.  I like music though.  So I knew as long as it wasn’t head banging, I could handle it!  Boy was I right!

Dan has always known he wanted to be a singer/songwriter.  At age 10 he started singing in his church.  That being said.  He loved opportunities that he received to lead worship and follow his faith.

After a 6 month mission trip with YWAM he knew exactly what his calling was.

In doing so, he has toured all over New Zealand and Australia racking up many accolades and #1s.  Being from Canada, he also knew he had to take a leap of faith, move his family to Nashville where the music industry revolves and with the release of his song “Beautiful”

he steps into a whole new world.  When Dan wrote the song, he based it on 2 Corinthians 5:17 –  Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.[b] The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

Beautiful is part of the CD Where The Light Is.  As I started listening to the cd from the beginning.  I knew this was going to be someone who I WANTED to listen to.  A LOT!  The songs have meaning, passion.  They tell a story.  From the very first words of Where The Light Is –

This is me / Grew up in church / Raised on the gospel trained in the word / Had a faith so fearless thought it was all I needed / But life hit me hard / More than I planned / It knocked me down / Like an avalanche / On the edge of hopeless I called you from the darkness // God, come quickly / Only You can save me / Will You lead me where the light is /

How many of us ask that same question on a daily basis when we face trials and tragedy like Dan was when a car accident killed his mom.  We fall on our knees, asking God please come quickly.

Dan’s songs on this CD lead me through so many emotions and words reaffirm my faith, like “He knows every pain every tear you’ve cried / Every single part of you / He knows every doubt, every fear that you fight / The battles you’ve been going through / And when it feels like you’re holding the world on your shoulders / Just let go and trust Him, ‘cause He knows /

How much more affirmation do you need in your faith in God?  To hear this with the music that is sometimes slow, sometimes really upbeat.  But always beautiful!  These words spoke to me so much and I knew I had to share this CD with my best friend. 


She is deploying this Saturday for a year.  She’s my hero.  However she is leaving 4 beautiful babies home and while this is her 4th deployment and she knows this is her career.  It’s never easy for a soldier on deployment.  So being able to give her music to carry with her, that will give her any boost in her spirits or help her keep her faith during a term of being surrounded by war and strife.  Thank you Lord for blessing me with this CD at just the right time.  She’s my hero and I pray so much for her and her family.  While her life isn’t walking parallel to Dan’s when he wrote this song, everyone’s struggles are different.

Putting lyrics to paper like he has for this CD is a God thing and being able to be introduced to someone who can sing with talent that lets you feel their heart, is a blessing that comes so few and far between.

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Laurie Coombs’ ‘Letters from My Father’s Murderer’ Kindle Fire Giveaway #BookReview

Can God heal the deepest wounds and redeem what seems unredeemable? Laurie Coombs experiences God’s transforming and redemptive power in her new book, Letters from My Father’s Murderer. When her father was murdered, Laurie Coombs and her family sought justice―and found it. Yet, despite the swift punishment of the killer, Laurie found herself increasingly full of pain, bitterness, and anger she couldn’t control. It was the call to love and forgive her father’s murderer that set her, the murderer, and several other inmates on the journey that would truly change their lives forever.

Join Laurie in celebrating the release of Letters from My Father’s Murderer by entering to win a Kindle Fire!

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  • A Kindle Fire HD 6

  • A copy of Letters from My Father’s Murderer

Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on July 20th. The winner will be announced July 21st on Laurie’s site.

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My Review

Laurie and Anthony.  Two families.  Two friends.  Two people drawn together by one tragedy.  Although some will say two.

When Laurie’s father was murdered because of a sin committed.  An eye for an eye.  However, that’s Old Testament law.  New Testament law says we forgive and then that’s the only way we move on with our lives.  How hard can that be?  In reality we say to ourselves, as a Christian I should be able to forgive anyone. As a human, will I be able to forgive anyone?

God gave us the greatest gift in forgiveness,  by allowing Jesus to die on the cross for our sins.  So our roles as Christians is easy.  Forgive.


This book goes through Laurie and Anthony’s process of forgiving those that betrayed them. Those that hurt them, by the most unlikely of ways, correspondence with each other.


Through their letters, they find healing and a better relationship with themselves, but even more important a better relationship with God.

I strongly urge you to check out this book and go through this process with them!  As the sister of someone who has completed a suicide.  While different, the act of forgiveness is the same.  From the simple hurt your feel when someone hurts your feelings, to the big things like suicide, murder, affairs.  God commands us to forgive.  Learn some very valuable resources, just in reading their words to each other and the process they go experience.


“I didn’t want my faith to be just a belief system. I wanted it to be real. I wanted it to impact my life. I wanted it to change the way I lived.” –– Letters from My Father’s Murderer 

You can find discussion questions to use in your own Bible Study or a Book Group here

Laurie A Coombs is a passionate writer and speaker on the issues of forgiveness, redemption, and the hope that is found in Jesus. Her story is featured in Billy Graham’s new film, “Heaven.” <

She is a featured writer and blogger for iBelieve and Crosswalk. Laurie and her husband, Travis, make their home in Nevada along with their two daughters.
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This is a stand-alone book, a clean, read.  Very intense though.   

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Picture Perfect Love #BookReview


Jenna Harrison is a photographer from Sweetwater, Washington. Her photography shop is Picture Perfect Love. While Jenna is a great wedding photographer. Her own wedding became a disaster when her fiancé of two years, Ash Vance, walked away from her at the altar. He stood up in front of everyone, asked for his grandmother’s ring back and then blamed her for something she didn’t do. This book follows her path after going two years without a word from Ash. See what happens next in Picture Perfect Love by Melissa McClone.

So for two years, Jenna worked hard at bringing her photography business back to the way it was before Ash destroyed her life, left her with 1000’s of dollars in wedding deposits and bills to pay as well as send back all the gifts and deal with all the fallout from canceling a wedding last-minute.

Had it not been for her brother Colton, Jenna really had no idea where she would be. That and the pastor and his wife at Sweetwater Community Church. She ran into the church one day trying to get out of a rainstorm and never looked back. Pastor Dan and his wife, Trish, taught Jenna about forgiveness, and second chances.

Ash comes back into Jenna’s life when he is seeking forgiveness and a wedding photographer for his spoiled little sister Amber and Toby’s wedding. Amber’s photographer was placed on complete bed-rest, so she asked Ashton to ask Jenna to photograph Amber’s wedding. He apologized to Jenna and Jenna knew that because of her second chances, she had to accept, although, she was very leery. She agreed to the wedding on very specific terms. Help with a youth trust building outing at the church, double her fee and she would do the wedding;
With the trust building activities in full swing Jenna learns a lot about herself and her total lack of trust. She knew she could go no further unless everyone vowed to be honest, put her first in everything and then go forward with her life.

What happens next leaves you on your seat waiting for more. Will she ever fully trust Ashton and will he ever. fully give her the complete faith she expects? Read this sweet novella to find out what happens. Melissa McClone keeps you wanting more!
Picture Perfect Love by Melissa McClone is book #7 in a yearlong series about weddings called A Year of Weddings.



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The Wonder Of You – #Book Review

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by Susan May Warren
Tyndale House Publishers
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As Amelia settles back down into her hometown life after a failed try at a school in Europe, she realizes that she is not the same person that left for school.

Her family and Amelia own an Inn in the woods just out-of-town, and since she has come home, she realizes that she must help the family business, which is a far cry from the photographer she dreams to be.

In failed relationships also she realizes she is not that same woman.  While Amelia is looking to find who she is, as well as that one perfect shot.  She finds just who she is, what love really is, where she wants to be in her life and whether or not, she wants the home town boy that she has loved her entire life, or the playboy that came all the way here to show her how much he cares, but only with other motives!

Through life, love, photography and  trials that test every last bit of faith she has.  Check out Amelia’s journey for the truth in every aspect of her life.


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Now and Forever – #BookReview


Now and Forever
by Connealy, Mary
Bethany House
Bethany House Publishers

Christian, Romance

After Shannon Wilde literally follows mountain man Matthew Tucker over a cliff, can they learn to live together–for better or worse?

After going over the cliff, Shannon and Tucker get trapped in a cave after being swept down river.  After being together night and day for several days.  Having to deal with bugs, caves, no daylight, very little food, no shelter, other than the cave itself and all the things that go with this when strangers are stuck together, Shannon and Tucker face things that are deadly, beautiful, and scary, just among some of those things, like bears, a dark cave, and whether they can get out and “fireflies’

After realizing that the fireflies they are seeing are twinkling stars above they realize that they have found a way out from being stuck in the cave forever

Open being rescued however, they face a whole new set of stressful circumstances  What is going to get them safe from the troubles they face, safe from each other and safe with each other.

Check this book out to see how they survive all the tests and trials that they go through.

My opinions of Now and Forever

For me, the book seemed very unrealistic but that is the entire nature of fiction.  So using your imagination and giving the author creative license, this book has so much of that creative licensing!  While it was a quick fast, fairly clean read, I just found it to be very over the top in what the reader was to believe.

Now all that being said, for what it is, the book was good.  Now and Forever, by Mary Connealy will let you use your imagination and bring some very thoughtful moments to mind.

Organizing with Washi Tape

i am a very disorganized person.   I mean truly disorganized.

So anything that helps me stay organized or makes my life simpler, I’m game.

I have this obsession with Washi tape. Only I’m al cheap.   So I get to fulfil my obsession at Dollar Tree for two rolls of tape for $1.00!!

My cheap Roll Of Tape!

Then I get to organize my day planner that I LOVE (thank you to Mardel Christian Stores

So how do I make my life simpler

I take the tape and put it down at the bottom of the page on weeks that are complete like this 


(This one is an example only!) 

And on uncompleted weeks I leave it off, so at just the feel of my hand, I know exactly where I am.

Something so incredibly simple, but has made my life even simpler!!

Thanks Dollar Tree and Mardel!  And whoever makes this cheap tape.

Voila, easy, breezy, way to keep a simple thing even simpler!!  For that I am all over it!!! 

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Power Of Prayer

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When things go wrong, oh and they will go wrong…  You have to do a couple of things

1.  Either let it all go to God and trust that He will handle it,

2   Or deal with Satan’s outcome…

Dead-serious here.  

Let me give you some back story first. Since 2001, I am type-2 Non-Insulin-Dependent- Diabetes or NIDDM

Recently it has become insulin dependant  IDDM (in the last two years).  So not only have I been dealing with many doctors appts but at some place on either foot for the last two years, I have had a diabetic ulcer.  This happens because of a  a break down of the skin, inconsistent blood sugars daily, infections, and just a myriad of reasons how it can happen.  I have also had osteomyelitis twice in my right foot.


Because of this, my right foot has been very susceptible to diabetic ulcers, and starting this past spring, I got a very small I mean we are talking extremely small blister between my pinky toe and the next one on my right foot.  In doing so, I learned a lot about what can and can’t happen.  In a matter of days, this very small sore, turned into a sore that was 1 cm x 8 cm and it tracked all the way to the bone (the deepness of it)

This was in February.  I changed dr’s during that time, from an Internist PA to a full-blown Podiatrist and Endocrinologist, so that I could get more aggressive about my care and prayerfully come back off of insulin and as many other complications that went along with the ulcer, and the high sugars and the bad A1C .  

Because of this, I have been to the Podiatrist, every other day for the last 4 mths and have also had a minor surgery where he took some bone out, so it wouldn’t be rubbing up against my other foot, which was part of the problem to begin with.

After the surgery the surgical site, being so stinking small, healed so quickly, we were all so surprised.  However the ulcer didn’t heal.  Dr.’s, Wound Care nurses and I were just bumfuzzled about what to do.  We kept treating it with Silver Alginate, we used a WoundVac and many other things.  This kept going on, from Feb until the first part of June, and I have finally had enough.  I had been in a DH Walker boot or a surgical shoe for almost 2 years for one reason or another from diabetes ulcers. Also off and on for almost 4 years on one foot or the other for some reason.

The ulcer I had kept getting bigger, and bigger, never losing any tracking and never getting any smaller, only bigger, no matter what treatment we did.  I even stayed up 3 days in a row because they put a woundvac on it and the woundvac wouldn’t stay plugged in.  So I had to hold the plug into the machine just so it would stay running.  We didn’t realize this until we went to plug the machine in on my foot.  So anyway, it has been an ordeal over the past few years.


I was on many prayer lists all over the country and I KNOW people prayed for me, close and far away.   They prayed on Facebook, in Text, in email and called me and prayed with me, and then prayed in person.   I can’t tell you the number of people who prayed and I knew God had this under control!!!

So all this being said  My son was getting married in Seattle on June 13th.  Of course that meant a plane ride (actually 4) and going and going.  I just wanted to make it till then.  The dr and I came up with a plan of action before I left, and he had one more trick up his sleeve and well, then I made a very conscientious decision that, included amputation.  I was ready, made peace with losing a body part and knew after I got home from a 9 day vacation, I was going to lose a toe (while it’s just a toe) I’m pretty attached to my toes!!!  

It was a spur of the moment week while we were up there, and if they called to do something until the wedding day, it was one of those, be here in 30 min or so. i did NOT want to deal with wrapping, unwrapping, explaining and all the other stuff that goes with having a sore on your foot.  I did use my scooter while I was up there.  And I went from pushing myself in a manual wheelchair using my feet (which made everything worse) to using the scooter, so that friction of pushing with my feet was gone and that was a major plus!!


Well during that vacation, I took a very minimalist approach to the care of my wound, for one thing.  I was just flat-out exhausted to doing anything with it.   i kept it clean, I kept it covered in silver and a band-aid.  and I prayed, I prayed hard.  I prayed to God for several things,

1.  Please let me have the strength to dance with my son at his wedding (had prayed for that one for months)

 2.  Please God if it’s your iwill, do not let the amputation go through, but heal my foot.

3.  Please just give me good blood sugars and to stay under control during this time.

okay.  now the wedding.  We left TX on June 10th, for 8 days.  When we get to Seattle, it is okay temperature wise, but quickly rises up into the high 80’s low 90’s.  i had just hit TX weather in Seattle.  So not only did I have to worry about my foot, but my breathing also.  When it is very warm, I can’t breathe at all.bandaid

My shoes that I brought to wear up there are leather tennis shoes.  They don’t breathe at all.  So right then and there, I decided to let my foot stay unwrapped and put the silver alginate on it with a band-aid. 

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I wore flip-flops to the wedding and really did nothing to protect my toe other than just keeping it clean and taking my antibiotic.  LITERALLY “Less is more” way of thinking.  The result was the same.  It was getting amputated.  Or it was getting well.

Because I believe so much in the power of prayer.  I once again prayed to God for His will to be done, for Him to heal me, completely or to make it abundantly clear that amputation was the way to get a healthy foot.

Well, you heard that old story, tell God your plans if you wanna make Him laugh..  He did a big ole belly laugh and said “watch this”  


When I went to the doctor this friday afternoon.  My foot had almost healed itself!  from a whole in my foot that tracked bone deep, and at least 1 cm wide to practically healed, I was so blown away.  I was honest with my DR and told him EVERYTHING.

The only thing I didn’t do is go in the Ocean while I was there.  I figured that would even be pushing God’s limits a bit!!  But I did go in a hot tub for a few minutes, and wore my foot open most of the time, unless I was going to be in public, then I covered it with a band-aid mostly so it couldn’t be seen.  1b84d57b0877e655165c1978dcb453d8

By the time we got home, my feet were swollen with fluid because of the long flights, I didn’t take fluid pills and my toe was very red indeed.

I knew I needed to rest my foot, keep it propped up and get the swelling down.  I did just that for two solid days, took my fluid pills and proceeded to rest in my way.

I get to the dr on Friday afternoon and as they are cleaning the wound, the nurses are just talking about how good it looked etc, and then Dr. A came in.  He was so surprised! Especially after I told him, I did the less is more option.

Here are just a few of the amazing things God has done.  

1.  The sore no longer tracks to the bone.

2.  It has shrunk.


4   God, in His almighty, infinite ways, has answered all the prayers for this one ;little toe.


I had a great vacation, and even though I didn’t walk much thanks to the convenience of a scooter, I did pretty much what I wanted.


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What an amazing gift God gave me in doing so.  I used to pray, God keep me alive till my kids are older, God keep me alive till they graduated High School, etc, etc, and always a new goal.

Now I pray God, I don’t know what you want me to do, but let’s go, I am game!!!  I know God has some amazing plans for me in the future and I am not sure what they are.  I am SO ready to see what He does have in store for me.

and I tell you this, 


1Thessalonians 5:16-18 16  “Rejoice always, 17 pray continually, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus”

Thanks for reading this far and remember If he can heal one sore foot, think of what he can do for your heart!!  If you want that same healing in your heart.  


read this.  God will help you also!

Question: “What is the sinner’s prayer?”

Answer: The sinner’s prayer is a prayer a person prays to God when they understand that they are a sinner and in need of a Savior. Saying a sinner’s prayer will not accomplish anything on its own. A true sinner’s prayer only represents what a person knows, understands, and believes about their sinfulness and need for salvation.

The first aspect of a sinner’s prayer is understanding that we are all sinners. Romans 3:10 proclaims, “As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one.” The Bible makes it clear that we have all sinned. We are all sinners in need of mercy and forgiveness from God (Titus 3:5-7). Because of our sin, we deserve eternal punishment (Matthew 25:46). The sinner’s prayer is a plea for grace instead of judgment. It is a request for mercy instead of wrath.

The second aspect of a sinner’s prayer is knowing what God has done to remedy our lost and sinful condition. God took on flesh and became a human being in the Person of Jesus Christ (John 1:1,14). Jesus taught us the truth about God and lived a perfectly righteous and sinless life (John 8:46; 2 Corinthians 5:21). Jesus then died on the cross in our place, taking the punishment that we deserve (Romans 5:8). Jesus rose from the dead to prove His victory over sin, death, and hell (Colossians 2:15; 1 Corinthians chapter 15). Because of all of this, we can have our sins forgiven and be promised an eternal home in Heaven – if we will just place our faith in Jesus Christ. All we have to do is believe that He died in our place and rose from the dead (Romans 10:9-10). We can be saved by grace alone, through faith alone, in Jesus Christ alone. Ephesians 2:8 declares, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God.”

Saying the sinner’s prayer is simply a way of declaring to God that you are relying on Jesus Christ as your Savior. There are no “magical” words that result in salvation. It is only faith in Jesus’ death and resurrection that can save us. If you understand that you are a sinner and in need of salvation through Jesus Christ, here is a sinner’s prayer you can pray to God: “God, I know that I am a sinner. I know that I deserve the consequences of my sin. However, I am trusting in Jesus Christ as my Savior. I believe that His death and resurrection provided for my forgiveness. I trust in Jesus and Jesus alone as my personal Lord and Savior. Thank you Lord, for saving me and forgiving me! Amen!”

Did you pray the sinner’s prayer and truly understand and believe what it teaches?  Please comment below so I can pray for you also!  Start reading your Bible!  If you don’t know where to start, either start at the beginning and read it like a book, or the the Book of James or the Book of Luke.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog and rejoicing with me!

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Deborah Raney’s ‘Two Roads Home- 5-Book Giveaway

Two Roads Home Deborah Raney


When you have an Inn, your life revolves around it… When you have a family, your live revolves around your family.  For Grant and Audrey, the proprietors of Chicory Inn, their lives revolve around both.  Trying to leave every Tuesday open for coveted dinners with a family of three daughters and their families, Grant and Audrey hit obstacle after obstacle.

The writer develops each character in their own little way, however Corinne and Jesse (the innkeeper’s daughter and son-in law) are the main focus of Book 2; Two Roads Home: A Chicory Inn Novel


Jesse’s job requires travel.  During the said travel there are many instances where he must travel with another woman.  This travel deems to be the downfall for them.  Jesse doesn’t realize it, but his personality, being charming, flirtatious and just being himself, drives his career right into the crash course of an oncoming disaster

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this quote from the book is has so much truth in it and I know it has become a proactive quote in my journals now.

“There’s never a perfect time for change. Sometimes you just have to do it.”

With the love of a great family, a great wife, a great support system, can Jesse come back from the brink of disaster on so many levels, emotionally,, physically and legally.

Can Corinne save her marriage and her family with God’s help!  God is so powerful in His attempts to get us to see what He is trying to show us, even using the hardest lesson of all to show others peace, love and happiness. Check out Two Roads Home: A Chicory Inn Novel – Book 2, to find just what course they take and how this book can help you with heart promises and heart pains.  There are discussion questions at the end, so it would make a great Book Club choice, as well as it is a very good stand-alone book. I didn’t even realize it was a series until I went to write my review and saw the complete title!   The author does a great job of character building and writing the book in a stand-alone point of view.  I love that about series also.  You can read more about Deborah Raney and this series A Chicory Inn Novel

I highly recommend this book.  I received a copy from Litfuse in exchange for my honest review

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Colleen Coble’s Melt into Summer Giveaway and ‘A Heart’s Betrayal’ Blog Tour

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Emmie finds shelter in the arms of a soldier in Fort Laramie, Wyoming, but will her big secret drive them apart? Find out in book four, A Heart’s Betrayal, of Colleen Coble’s A Journey of the Heart series. Suddenly displaced, powerless, and ashamed, Emmie can’t stay in Wabash, Indiana. She makes a hopeful start for Fort Laramie to find her friend Sarah Montgomery and a new beginning. But when she arrives, she discovers she’s pregnant—and without a husband. The new start she’d hoped for slips from her fingers.

Melt into summer with a new giveaway from Colleen: four books (books one–four in Colleen’s A Journey of the Heart series) and a box of chocolates to pair with your new books!


One grand prize winner will receive:

  • A copy of A Heart’s Betrayal
  • A box of Colleen’s favorite chocolate truffles from DeBrand Fine Chocolates
  • A copy of A Heart’s Disguise
  • A copy of A Heart’s Obsession
  • A copy of A Heart’s Danger

Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on June 30th. Winner will be announced July 1st on Colleen’s website.


My Review

The Fourth Installment in The Journey of the Heart Collection,  Heart’s Betrayal  picks back up in Wabash with Ben’s Sister, Emmie, who has just lost her husband. Who turns out, is a bigamist. The home Emie thought she had, is not hers, the money she thought she had to go on with wasn’t hers.
She know she can’t stay in Wabash, so she heads for FT Laramie to seek out Ben and Laab. What she finds is something totally different.

She find her friend Sarah, and Sarah’s Sister In Law Amelia.
She also finds out some startling news. That she is pregnant with her dead husband’s child. So now she must start over, being embarrassed and leaving her home town, but also start over with a child in tow.

When she lands at FT Laramie, Isaac is instantly wowed by Emmie. He is beginning to fall in love with her and she must tell him and risk losing him forever that she is pregnant. Will he want to be the father of her baby? Will he take on that responsibility?

Book 4 jumps around quite a bit, and I wasn’t too impressed with the fact that we barely even heard much about Sarah and Rand or what happened with the woman he was too marry.

It just jumps to this new story line and all of a sudden we are in Ft Laramie with new characters. This is my only issue with this series of books so far.

However, you can still follow the main characters regardless of the jumping around
these series is definitely NOT a standalone series and none of the books will stand on their own. You MUST read all of the books to understand


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Thrilling New Read from Richard Mabry | ‘Fatal Trauma’ and the Perfect Prescription Giveaway


Can Mark find out who the shooter is before he becomes the next victim? You won’t want to miss the suspense in Richard Mabry’s new book, Fatal Trauma. Facing an adversary whose desires are dark and efforts are ruthless, Mark finds himself under suspicion as a killer, yet still a potential victim. When he turns to his high school sweetheart, attorney Gwen Woodruff, for help, Kelly helplessly looks on, as she hides her own feelings for the good doctor.

Richard is celebrating the release of Fatal Trauma by giving away The Perfect Prescription Prize Pack!

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One grand prize winner will receive:

Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on June 20th. The winner will be announced June 22nd on Richard’s blog.

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My Review

Dr. Mark Baker and Kelly Atkinson are found in the ER during the opening scene, trying to save the life of a Zeta drug cartel member, however they fail. Also losing the life of police officer Ed Purvis as he put his life on the line also trying to protect so many, is Fatal Trauma by Richard L. Mabry, MD

This book never slows down from here

At the risk of sounding like a clichés’. This book has it all, espionage, murder, accusatory policemen, love, and everything else that keeps you on the edge of your seat, Did Mark and Key murder someone? Or is someone trying to set them up for murder?

This book will stay in a “clean read” catagory for me based on no sexual content, the language was very appropriate. While the violence is not described other than in medical terms usually, there is a lot of violence implied. So that alone might tturn some away from this book. However, the implications of violence are so brief in each aspect of it, it is easy to get by it.

The one constant in this book is that several people rely on their relationship with Christ however the author never takes the time to build any single character’s relationship with Christ, in a grand way.

It’s usually always an after thought. That is disappointing to me because I was expecting more. While this one thing was disappointing I can honestly recommend this book!

I mean, how can you get through a day without calling on Christ when you are accused of murder, people are trying to murder you and you are losing so much also. The only Bible reference is Roman’s 8:28

Romans 8:28. ‘And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them

Richard L. Mabry, MD has put together a very good mystery/thriller and he is an author I will be reading more of his work.  I can see his books become favorites quickly! This was a basically clean read, except for the things I have commented on so far. I loved the medical facts being used, in every aspect. I mean from the correct dosages of medications to the exact terminology of a procedure or medical instrument. I also loved that he explained the things that may have been difficult to understand.

Let the Journey Begin – Max Lucado -Family Christian #FCBloggers


Let the journey began is by author Max Lucado and is another great book by him.

This little book is specifically about your journey with God and his journey with you

Between a devotional and a gift book let the journey began brings you little readings were daily influence in your life whether you’re starting a new journey, completing an old journey, or right in the middle of a journey you’ve been on for a while

With scripture reference and Lucado’s way with words this book will give you an influence of God’s gifts,  God’s love,  and what God expects from you as a child of God.

Max gives you so many great tidbits of God’s Word and he just knows how to energize the soul!

Every little devotion leaves you with something powerful to take with you on your journey through life, with Christ.
There is nothing better than the Bible, God and a Lucado Devotional/Gift Book
This little book would make an incredible Graduation Gift





these are just a few of the beautiful words in this beautiful little book!

Thank you to Family Christian for sending this to me in exchange for my honest review

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Colleen Coble’s Perfect Pairing Giveaway and Blog Tour




Sarah risks everything to expose the betrayal threatening the man she loves—but will the risk be worth it? Find out in book three, A Heart’s Danger, of Colleen Coble’s A Journey of the Heart series. Rand’s new fiancée wants to keep him from returning to Sarah Montgomery . . . for whom his heart clearly still yearns. Sarah just wants to move on with her life at Fort Laramie, but doing so under the watchful eyes of both Campbell—the man whose love she craves—and Croftner—the man whose lies have cost her everything.

Enter to win the perfect pairing giveaway: three books (books one–three in Colleen’s A Journey of the Heart series) and coffee to pair with your new book!


One grand prize winner will receive:

  • A copy of A Heart’s Danger
  • A pound of Colleen’s favorite coffee, Captain Davy’s Coffee Roaster Costa Rican
  • A copy of A Heart’s Disguise
  • A copy of A Heart’s Obsession

Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 31st. Winner will be announced June 1st on Colleen’s website.


My Review

A Heart’s Danger picks up with the Sioux ready to go to war, Sarah, fighting to just move on with her life.  Then things drastically change.  Sarah is kidnapped and while she is eventually found by “Little Wolverine” and taken back to the Sioux camp.  She made many new lifelong friends.  While at Fort Laramie, the soldiers are gearing up to go to war with the Indians, Sarah is taken aback by this and prays for her friends to be safe.

Back to the kidnapping,  I don’t want to tell you any thing that happened during this, so just suffice it to say that all the twists and turns Book #3 takes will leave you begging for more!

With lots of pain and suffering through this book, there were many things that made A Heart’s Danger, very exciting and at only 128 pages, it is a very quick read.  

The cover of this book is beautiful!  

While I have received a copy of these books from Litfuse in e-book format, in exchange for my honest review.  Because the covers are such beautiful works of art, this will be a set of books I buy for the art.

If you love historical fiction, you will love this series of books by Colleen Coble.  

I love the way she is doing this series and releasing one each month.  while you don’t have to wait forever for the rest of the story, there is still some anticipation to the story!  Go check out Coble’s website for this series “Journey Of The Heart

I hope you enjoy them as much as I have


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Mama Maggie – Family Christian #FCBlogger

Mistaken for an angel in a private home, seen several times, laying prone with her face to the ground praying, seen many times walking through the garden, picking up new stones to include in her collection, or seen taking the stand at the Global Leadership Conference, She sometimes heads to the desert to pray, hugging a “garbage child” from the dumps of the Egyptian towns that surrounded her “home base”, and many more things like this…. is the “Mother Theresa of Cairo” and the founder of Stephens Children

 Mama Maggie, Maggie Groban


a beautiful woman, Coptic Christian and just a blessing from God above for anyone that has met her, or has had the pleasure of being helped by her.  Stephen’s Children is such a great organization based on the needs of Egyptian Children.

Mama Maggie is one of those rare people who never meets a stranger, never meets someone she doesn’t want to help

A Love Story, based on Mama Maggie’s love for God and then her love for everyone else.

WHEN ONE HAS NOTHING…God becomes everything.”
Mama Maggie’s soft-spoken message of radical love and her call to serve “the least of these” rang out at the Willow Creek Global Leadership Summit.

I am the daughter of all the prayers and love, the tears and blood offered up to God in my country over many generations, I love my country my church and my needy children, and I’m ready to give my life for them. – Mama Maggie

From medical care, to the clothes off of her back.

One may mistake her for a nun, however, she is not.  She chose to give her clothes and jewels away because of her work.  How could she be effective, wearing nice clothes and precious jewels/gold and finery and do what she was called to do.  taking the verse Matthew 25:40 to heart “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

She treats everyone that she meets this way, not only the children she helps in the garbage dumps of Cairo, but even the workers that work for her own Ministry Stephen’s Children.

Stephen’s Children offers, ministry needs like School, Medical Care, Literacy Classes, Clean Water, Sports Camps and Days out and Vocational Training.

Mama Maggie is the autobiography of Maggie Groban as well as a dossier on Stephen’s Children.  I highly recommend this book for reasons, 1) to see what is happening abroad for children, that we can’t reach here in America

2) just to have the knowledge of this beautiful woman and her organization

3) maybe there is a way you can help and if not, physical needs, then there is always prayers.

Mama Maggie believes in prayer, uses prayer the way Jesus did, even to the point of going out alone, into the desert, or in her own prayer closet (*makeshift closets, no matter where she is also) and anywhere she can!  I loved this about her.  That no matter where she was, she never neglected her prayer time.  No matter what.  Even to the point, of once in a women’s conference, taking up cell phones, and devices, and letting the women, have 24 silent hours for prayer, silence and refreshment time.  This refreshment time, is not drinks or food, it was getting refreshed with God.  Spending your time in prayer and refreshment with God.


Beautiful Words from Mama Maggie to end this on.

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Robin Lee Hatcher’s Kickin’ Karaoke and Country-Music Matching Contests

Real-life romance meets fictional romance in Robin Lee Hatcher’s new book, Whenever You Come Around. Being back in Kings Meadow dredges up a painful secret, and old fears threaten to overwhelm Charity. But after Charity’s dog causes an accident that leaves Charity’s former high school classmate Buck injured, Charity has little choice but to render aid while he recuperates. Soon Buck becomes the inspiration for Charity’s hero, both on the page and off. Can he also help her face and overcome her fears so they might find their own happily ever after?
Robin is hosting TWO contests to celebrate the release of Whenever You Come Around
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Robin is challenging you to a karaoke contest and giving away a $100 iTunes or Amazon gift card to one lucky reader and karaoke-r who uploads a karaoke video of himself or herself to YouTube (song choice is completely up to you). The person whose video has the most likes by May 26th will win the gift card! Plus everyone who participates by uploading a video and filling out the form below will receive a copy of the book. For full details about the $100 gift card giveaway, karaoke contest, and the chance to get a free copy of the book, click here—voting begins May 12.
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Robin is also challenging you to a matching contest. How well do you know your country music?
One winner will receive:
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Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 26th. Winner will be announced May 27th on Robin’s blog.
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Whenever You Come Around (Thomas Nelson, May 2015) Will writing a romance help this author find a real-life hero? Charity Anderson turned her back on Kings Meadow years ago, with good reason, and has avoided visits to her hometown whenever possible. But with her house in Boise damaged by floodwaters and a book deadline bearing down, staying in her parents’ empty home seems her only option. However, being back in Kings Meadow dredges up a painful secret, and old fears threaten to overwhelm her. Charity’s former high school classmate Buck Malone never left town, instead sacrificing his dreams to take care of his family. Now he enjoys an uncomplicated life as a wilderness guide and confirmed bachelor. The last thing on his mind is settling down. When Charity’s dog causes an accident that leaves Buck with a broken ankle and wrist at the start of prime tourist season, Charity has little choice but to render aid while he recuperates. Soon Buck becomes the inspiration for Charity’s hero, both on the page and off. Can he also help her face and overcome her fears so they might find their own happily ever after? Learn more and purchase a copy at Robin’s website.
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Best-selling novelist Robin Lee Hatcher is known for her heart-warming and emotionally charged stories of faith, courage, and love. The winner of the Christy Award for Excellence in Christian Fiction, the RITA Award for Best Inspirational Romance, two RT Career Achievement Awards, and the RWA Lifetime Achievement Award, Robin is the author of over sixty novels. Find out more about Robin Lee at

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Sand In My Sandwich #FCBloggers – Family Christian

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Before you are a mom, sometime you might have this idealized vision of what motherhood is in your mind’s eye. your child will dress perfectly all the time, obedient, use their manners, will play nice with others, they will be the most adorable thing ever (well that one is the one that comes true) and never have a snot nose, or throw up or poop all over you, or cry in church, or weddings……. you get the picture.

That perfect child. That you as an adult can’t even be if you tried! Because no one is perfect except our Lord and Savior!

Now imagine having a child that in any other normal circumstances, acts like…. a child but then, you add in ASD – Autism Spectrum Disorder.

My life with my stepdaughter, was my first step into the world of Autism, and I know from raising her about the repetitiveness, the hand flapping, all the temper flares, the sensitivities etc. However, I have also raised 3 boys with ADD, Dyslexia and two were hyperactive, so out of my 4 children, only one, is “normal: for whatever “normal is” I hate that word… So as a parent,

First, throw out that word “normal” and don’t even GO THERE. However, for me, I have 4 beautiful children, that are now adults and are very self-sufficient on their own.  

As a parent, with a child with ASD, you must realize your child isn’t perfect and come to terms with that. Then you must realize your child has a genetic brain disorder and come to terms with that and all that comes with it. The outbursts, the idiosyncrasies of not having things just right or texture issues both in clothing and food, or the, colors fall the wrong way, or, or. Or. or… You get the picture completely, or should by now.

Second as a parent then you must realize that there is NO NORMAL..
Your normal may redefine itself every single day! Get used to it. It’s fun!

Sarah Parshall Perry, tells her story of not having ONE ASD child but having TWO and everything that comes with that. From the Dr’s visits, the school issues, the food issues, the clothing issues.
I love this from Perry

“There is no perfect family, no life free of mess.
But in the midst of it all,
God is there,  to remind us” My Child I’ve GOT THIS”

How powerful are those words knowing that if you seek him out, He has it all under control!

This book is about just that. Seeking God out, trusting Him and not waiting till things get horrible TO seek Him out, but to go to HIM first.

To Trust Him
Trust Your Child
And above all,
Trust the gifts God gave you in being a parent

Do not allow people to get in your head, don’t allow your “perfect ideology from before you had kids” to destroy your life WITH kids.

In trusting yourself as a mother/parent as you make daily decision for your family and your children, based on prayer and divine direction from God. You can make the days seem not so hard, those way to hard days, seem not so important and those times when you have a perfect sandwich, that tastes like sand, seem like a 5 star meal…. Or at least you won’t feel your life is falling apart as a parent when it doesn’t go perfectly or normal.

This book is an incredible book on how to make it through the simple times and the big times. It’s not just another “self-help book with all the answers” What Sarah does, though, is guides you to the Bible, when things DO fall apart, (And they will fall apart.)That Perfect self Help book that does have all the answers!

Sand In My Sandwich is available to buy now at Family Christian.

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Become a Better Friend | Natalie Chambers Snapp’s ‘Heart Sisters’ and Girls’ Night Out Giveaway

Want to be a better friend and have better friends? Natalie Chambers Snapp wrote Heart Sisters just for you! She uses her own and others’ stories of successes and failures to illustrate what she has learned about girlfriend relationships. Discussion questions, space to journal, photos, and quick interviews of healthy female friendships are included within each chapter.

Help Natalie celebrate the release of her new book by entering to win goodies you’ll need for a girls’ night out with your heart sister!

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Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 17th. Winner will be announced May 18th on Natalie’s blog.

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Now for my honest review of this book:

I am in love with this book  having many acquaintances and very few friends, this book has been a real eye opener to me.
there are many reasons why I choose not to have very close friends, however being hurt, of course is the main reason.  I mean really hurt.  Can we say skeered???  I am terrified of having a close female friend,

The pain I have suffered is monumental, so much that I have had to seek peace.  Has it worked?  Oh no, not at all.  I’m a very jealous, scared, sad human being.  Have I asked for forgiveness for what I contributed?  Of course, have I given my forgiveness?  I honestly thought I had.

Heart Sisters has made me realize that I have no more given my forgiveness than the man in the moon.  I am a wimp.  A God-Fearing, non forgiving wimp.

So I have been in prayer about these things and I know that my role is to seek out and forgive.  However, at the place in my heart now, I can’t.  Some of the women, I have not forgiven, some I have just not asked, and some, I just didn’t think I needed too.

So I ask from my readers, to please pray for me.  Pray that I God can give me the courage to truly forgive in my heart.  I mean truly forgive in my heart.  Then I need to go to these people.  Please ask God for that also.

I have been completely and utter stunned about my response to this because I was truly sure that I was over this and had done the right thing.

There are so many things that this book has given me the tools to be able to forgive.  I pray that it’s sun because I know that God will be happy with me when it’s done.

Obviously you can tell that I liked the book.  Well, other than the stepping on the toes, and the slapping in the face, and the 2×4 up to the head :)  Thank you Natalie!
The book has great resources, including discussion questions, pictures, interviews, room to journal and so much more.
This little book is packed with so many resources.

First, I cannot thank God enough for giving me the friends I have,
Second, I can’t thank Natalie enough for writing this book
Third, I cannot thank my friends that I have enough for putting up with me, warts and all.  Thanks for being there through everything and giving me the support that you do.

God is good and I promise you that this book will give you the resources you need, if you have a relationship that needs mended, or even if you don’t.

Once we humble ourselves to the Lord, humbling ourselves to others becomes a bit easier.  humility is the key that unlocks hearts”.  –  Natalie Chambers Snapp

this book is amazing and I strongly suggest you either go buy it, enter this contest, or ask me to borrow it!!  I will send it to anyone on their kindle!

check out these sayings that @Natalie Chambers Snapp has made to go with the book #HeartSisters.  She put so much thought into the words in this book and then made these graphics.  I have printed them for a little booklet, so that when things start getting bad and I have a moment, where I either can’t or won’t remember the reasons that God gives us friends.  Thanks so much to Natalie Chambers Snapp for all of these great reminders  

here they are in a movie format set to CeCe Winans Always Sisters

I have made them into a PDF document so you can print your own little copy for a booklet!.  You can print your copy here!  These are ALL owned and made by Natalie Chambers Snapp

Click the link below and the document will come up in a new browser and you can download and print it

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Interview with Natalie Chambers Snapp
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Heart Sisters: Be The Friend You Want To Have
Questions and Answers
Why led you to write Heart Sisters?
About four years ago, I was charged with leading a ministry of roughly 70 women. I noticed that when misunderstandings emerged between women, it wasn’t always handled in a way that would be pleasing to God. Unfortunately, I witnessed gossip, competition, and comparison in this culture of lovely Christian women. These ladies are loved and valued by God and created for a purpose only they can fulfill; however, walking through conflict in a way that honors God was a mystery to most. In fact, my friends who are not Christians seemed to handle conflict between one another better than Christian women.
I wanted to read a book with my ministry team that would encourage women to love and support each other with advice on how to work through the inevitable conflicts as well as how to forgive, when and how to establish relational boundaries and teaching our daughters how to be good friends. When I searched for this book, I couldn’t find one – so I wrote it!
Why do women need friendships? Isn’t their spouse enough?
Actually, no. While the marriage institution is a sacred union and very important, women still need each other. According to the popular Harvard Nurses’ Study, not having a strong network of female friends put you more at risk for high blood pressure, high cholesterol and a high heart rate. In fact, not having a girlfriend support system poses the same risk to your health as smoking and being overweight. Also, while I love my husband . . . let’s get real: there are some things men just can’t understand about women because they don’t see through the female lens.
What would you say to a woman who longs for friends but is quiet and reserved?
I know it can be more of a challenge for women who tend to be introverted to put themselves “ out there” but I would encourage them to have the courage to do so! Some of my own Heart Sisters are introverted and they are the best girlfriends! When those who tend to be more reserved keep themselves at home, they’re denying others to know the greatness of someone who is often thoughtful, intuitive and kind.
So many women have been deeply hurt by other women and don’t feel safe making new friendships. What would you say to them?
I would say “I so understand. I’ve been there.” After nursing my wounds and giving myself time to heal, I came to the conclusion that to deny myself the gift of true, authentic friendships would be giving fear a victory. We can’t always control what happens to us but we can control how we react. With each hurt, we grow wiser and are more able to identify who would be considered a safe person and who would not.
How would you advise a woman who is in the midst of a conflict with another woman now?
I would encourage her to use what I call the P.E.G. System. The first step of this system is to pray. Ask God to reveal your role in this conflict and how you can learn and grow from this particular situation. Humility is critically important in all relationships! The second step would be to examine. During the examine stage, there are three questions that need to be answered:
• Am I going to be able to be around this person without thinking about the hurt?
• Will this impact our friendship?
• Will I be able to trust this person in the future?
If your answers indicate there would be a problem in the future, then the next phase is to go directly to her. As followers of Christ, we are commanded in Matthew 18 to first go to the person who has hurt us and speak the truth in love. If both parties possess humble hearts and are more concerned with their relationships rather than being “right,” then conflict can actually make your friendship even stronger.
How on earth could conflict make a friendship stronger?
When two people come to the table and admit they’re both disabled by the flesh, they communicate to one another that they understand they’re a work in progress and aren’t perfect. Once they have talked through their conflict in a healthy manner, they prove their commitment to the relationship so they both understand that no matter what happens, they can talk through it and be OK. It’s a big deal in this “have to be right!” society!
What if you go to someone who has hurt you and you’re not met with humility but rather anger, defensiveness and criticism?
That’s a tough one but I know it happens because it’s happened to me. I think it’s natural to first feel defensive when someone approaches us about something they feel we’ve done wrong. However, I also think it’s possible to re-train our thinking so that when this does happen, we listen with a posture of humility instead of entering into litigation. If you have gone to her and spoken with love and she is still defensive and unable to really hear you, she just might not be ready to experience authentic relationship. Of course, there’s always grace so if she were to approach you later and apologize, then perhaps it was a learning experience for her and can be an example of iron sharpening iron. Sadly, sometimes friendships might end if both parties cannot be humble to one another – and being able to humble yourself to others comes only after we’re able to humble ourselves to God.
What about when a friendship ends? How do you manage the hurt?
First of all, it must be said that some friendships exist just for seasons of your life but then might fade away with time – it’s natural. Your Heart Sisters are the ones who aren’t seasonal – the ones who are always there.
When a friendship ends, it’s critically important not to talk about your friend to anyone else. Hurt only deepens when shallow comments are made about someone else.
Secondly, it’s also important to forgive her – even if she doesn’t seek your forgiveness. Forgiveness is not for her – it’s for you. Unforgiveness eats away the soul like battery acid eats flesh – leaving behind bitterness, anger, and resentment. Though we still may feel the sting, we might have to verbally profess our forgiveness to God– and we might have to do this more than once.
Lastly, as we’ve already discussed, we can’t let our hurtful experiences hold us back from the gift of authentic friendship. I see so many women writing off female friendships because they’ve been burned a time or two. I understand this pain; however, the risk is worth it – true, real, authentic Heart Sisters are life-changing.
How do we teach our daughters about healthy friendships?
The phrase “Be careful little eyes what you see” comes to mind! Like it or not, our children watch us very closely. Several years ago when my daughter was very young, some of my girlfriends and I were standing in my kitchen and we had fallen down the gossip hole. Holy conviction stirred me to quickly change the subject when I noticed my sweet little girl sitting at the table watching and listening intently. We model what we want our daughters to be. If we gossip and talk about others, they’ll do the same. If we view other women as competition and are envious and compare, then your daughter will as well. If you tend to “stir the pot” then yes . . . It’s likely your daughter will, too.
I also think it’s a good idea to be intentional about talking about your own friendships. Now and then, my Heart Sisters and I go out for dinner. My kids don’t like when I leave home in the evenings but I think it’s important to show them that while I love them like crazy, they aren’t the center of my universe. Girlfriends are important and when we prioritize time with them, it communicates to our daughters that friendship should be revered.
Lastly, a sad but true fact is our daughters will likely experience the wrath of a “mean girl” at some point in her life. Teaching her how to handle those “mean girls” is critical so she will be equipped with tools to use when and if the time comes. We talk more about mean girls and how to handle them in Heart Sisters.
What would you say to someone who longs to have Heart Sisters but doesn’t?
There’s nothing wrong with you. Keep having the courage to put yourself out there and be intentional about praying for this specifically. Years ago, I walked through a very hurtful conflict with another woman and I was deeply wounded. Soon after, I started to pray that God would cross my path with true women of God – women who weren’t perfect but instead were willing to be “safe” through humility, love and kindness. It’s not an instant process – those relationships take time to develop. However, ever-so-gradually, God began to answer the desires of my heart – and I know He’ll do the same for you.




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Buried Secrets Irene Hannon


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Buried Secrets Men of Valor Series Book #1 was gifted to me by Family Christian Stores in exchange for my honest review


Have you ever read a book that is so good that you read it cover to cover, the very first day you get it?  This book was better than that!!  Irene Hannon has written her best yet!

I was so excited about this book with each word I read!   The book starts out as a look back in history and weaves a story that the entire plot is about, but doesn’t give you details about a lot of the things that happen in this mystery.  Hannon weaves a story so creative that it leaves you wanting so much more.

Each character is created with so much thought and planning that you fall in love with them!  Even the bad guy!!! One of the best character’s is Talley, the dog!

I love mysteries and I love criminal mysteries even better and this book has it all.

Add to that, that it is basically a clean read, makes this book even better!

without going into details, just let me say that each twist and turn Lisa and Mac fall deeper and deeper in love and know that their personal relationship is off-limits until their working relationship is done.  She’s a City Police Chief, He is a county Officer.  Together the two work flawlessly in sync through the entire process of solving ‘the bones case”

The book is beautiful before you even pick it up, when you can feel the dirt….

I have never seen a book like this with this kind of cover that draws you in before you ever open the cover.  I am just not that kind of person when it comes to books.  I don’t care about the cover, I want the substance of the book.  This one was different.

I loved this book and had a very good experience while reading it!

It’s going to be a long wait till spring 2016 for the rest of the series!!!


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Flash the Donkey!

Flash! The Donkey is so incredibly special

So special there will be a complete web chat about him May 5th, you need to check it out here:


http://rachelanneridge.com/flashthedonkey/  click on the photo to register!

He has his own Facebook pagefacebook-icongo tell him hello!

his own twitter feed  twitter-iconyou really need to go check him out

and of course videos!

as well as his own book

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and a great book release party that you can check out by clicking on the graphic below


Flash: The Homeless Donkey, Who Taught Me About Life, Faith and Second Chances

What a fantastic little book about this incredible donkey. He really does nothing very special except be a donkey and the owners have learned so much for him. Well, he does escape, fall in love, destroy things that are in “his barn” he is mischievous, he is kind and considerate, and above all, loving. He knows the owners hearts. Now that’s some true donkey love there.
And they know that he knows. That’s the great thing. There is so much packed into this little book about Flash and you learn. You learn so much about your relationship with Jesus Christ. With others, and ten special things you learn from Flash

1. Remember your name – Know whose you are
2. Know where to find refuge. – True Sanctuary is found in God alone
3. Run with horses. – The pursuit of excellence conquers fear.
4. Find Your passion. – Passion leads to purpose.
5. Be a trailblazer. – Persistence makes pathways for grace to follow
6. Wear your donkey heart on your sleeve – A well-loved life is an authentic life
7. Stand where fruit is falling – The secret of abundance is in choosing gratitude.
8. Be a service animal. – You are made to serve in love.
9. Embrace Change – Don’t let fear of the unknown keep you from moving forward
10. Make things right with others – Don’t miss your chance to forgive accept and love
11. Your journey isn’t about fixing donkey problems – it’s about transformation

Flash is a sweet, runaway donkey with a huge personality. A sweet disposition *(unless you put something in his barn) a very enthusiastic look at life and the very best friend a person could have. Rachel Ridge gives you the best of flash in this book, with stories about his life, how he came to be theirs and of course all about the things he taught their family about life, love, faith, second chances and growing up


Because growing up donkey is a fun way to grow up. Growing up with a donkey is a fun way to grow up. When your life evolves around a pet, be it an old man dog named Beau or a young donkey that just meandered up on the property with no name for a few days until he became “Flash” His mischievous ways, his ability to get himself into many messes and in between trying to “be like a horse” and running away, Flash gives Rachel’s family many lessons on how to live your life, what is important and what isn’t important. Also where the focus needs to be in your life. So many Bible verses that give you the references that you need to bring you full focus back to God. Verses like Psalm 34:18 and Psalm 145:14. Psalm 91:1-2 and so many others that are there just for you to read
God plants the right seeds in your heart whether it be through a Bible verse or a donkey named Flash



and now as I read somewhere on the net, “I’m in love with a homeless donkey”  He has made me a better person and I will forever be changed by his strength, resilience, and love for others.  Thanks Flash!


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‘The Inn at Ocean’s Edge’ Kindle Giveaway

Someone—maybe everyone—is hiding something from Claire Dellamare, and it will cost her everything to drag the truth out into the light

Colleen Coble’s new book, The Inn at Ocean’s Edge, is a must-read for mystery and suspense readers. As Claire and Luke put together the pieces of a decades-old mystery, they discover that some family secrets refuse to stay buried. And some passions are worth killing for.

Celebrate the release of The Inn at Ocean’s Edge by entering to win a Kindle Fire and RSVPing to her May 5th author chat party!


One grand prize winner will receive:

  • A Kindle Fire

  • A copy of A Heart’s Disguise

  • A copy of A Heart’s Obsession

  • A copy of The Inn at Ocean’s Edge

Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 7th. Winner will be announced May 8th on Colleen’s website. Plus be sure to clear your calendar on the evening of May 5th because Colleen is hosting an author chat party on Facebook to celebrate her A Journey of the Heart series and the release of The Inn at Ocean’s Edge! RSVP here!


RSVP today and spread the word—tell your friends about the giveaway via FACEBOOK or TWITTER and increase your chances of winning. Hope to see you on May 5th!


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A Heart’s Obsession – Book Two Journey Of The Heart



In Heart’s obsession, we catch back up with Sarah and Rand and the crew.
Sarah has followed Rand to FT Laramie where she has become the teacher to the children.
Upon arriving there. Sarah finds out some disturbing news and must make adjustments in her life.
Ben also heads to FT Laramie in search of Sarah.
With all of them there, there are definitely mixed communications, hurt feelings, Sanctimonious people and then those that take it all and never hurt anyone. Those people are the ones that must break out of their shell and deal with the obsessions that are happening with other people’s lives!!
Each person must deal with things that others force on them also while dealing with their own heart’s obsessions!
Thank you to Colleen Coble for another great book in the 6 book series Journeys Of The Heart.




Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 7th. Winner will be announced May 8th on Colleen’s website. Plus be sure to clear your calendar on the evening of May 5th because Colleen is hosting an author chat party on Facebook to celebrate her A Journey of the Heart series and the release of The Inn at Ocean’s Edge! RSVP here!




One grand prize winner will receive:

  • A Kindle Fire

  • A copy of A Heart’s Disguise

  • A copy of A Heart’s Obsession

  • A copy of The Inn at Ocean’s Edge (blog tour coming in mid-April)



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USA Today bestselling author Colleen Coble has written several romantic suspense novels including “Tidewater Inn,” “Rosemary Cottage,” and the Mercy Falls, Lonestar, and Rock Harbor series.
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War Room The Movie

 The Giveaway is over, sorry for the incovenience.  Congratulations Heidi B


When I picked my #OneWord365 for this year, I chose #Intentional.  #Intentional about everything was what I wanted, whether it be relationships with my family and friends,  my church life, my God life, an my prayer life. I KNEW I needed to be #intentional about so many things in my life, however, the one thing that coming back to me, was that I needed to share everything with God, even though He already knew, I needed to TALK to Him!  I meant everything also.  I needed that one on one time to bring myself to a point where my prayer life was stronger than it had ever been and that I could “have a conversation” with God” about everything.

Then comes the movie, “The War Room”  What a wake up call for me.  I had the pleasure of going to a pre-screening premier last week.  Family Christian had provided me with this opportunity in exchange for my honest review.  So here we go!!!


Tony and Elizabeth Jordan seemingly have it all-great jobs, a beautiful daughter, their dream home. But appearances can be deceiving. In reality, their marriage has become a war zone and their daughter is collateral damage. But with the help of Miss Clara, an older, wiser woman, Elizabeth discovers she can start fighting for her family instead of against them. With her newly energized faith, Elizabeth’s real enemy doesn’t have a prayer.  

When you fight for something with God on your side?  How on earth can you lose  In this movie, there are prayers for each other, their marriage, their daughter, their troubled lives, but also, themselves.


God has a plan with us, however, we have to talk to Him.  He loves to listen to us!  He tells us in Matthew 6:6 “But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you” 22613_1617888921776020_8398078566296844273_nMiss Cara opens her home to Liz, one hour a week, they  together in a way that is so intimate and very scared  Clara is teaching Liz how to fight for her marriage, her home and her family.  During the movie Clara, gives Liz, battle plans for her prayer life.  Teachs her the right way to fight, instead of fighting her husband, fighting the enemy.Video Thumb Nail

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Elizabeth prays, and gains strength in her own life, through her prayer life, Clara explains to her that her prayers are her fight and her way to give back is to give those instructions and battle plans and teach someone else.  To mentor someone else in their battle plan and teach them how to pray also


Then comes the War Room.  Do you have that inner room, that closet that you can go to and pray in secret.  Do you have a War Room.  Where you do battle against the Enemy;  As you pray, you MUST make the enemy aware that He cannot kill your joy, he cannot steal your faith and he cannot destroy your home.  Scream it out and pray these things over your home.  Pray these things over your family.  Pray these things over your marriage.Make sure that the enemy knows that you and God teamed up and God is in control of your home.IMG_0351

As you do this, and as you become more and more mature in your prayer life, You let God just take over!  As you talk to Him, your faith comes in so much strength there is no way that anyone can come between

You and the Lord,

Your family and the Lord,

Your Joy and the Lord  

Your LIFE and the Lord.


When you are complacent in your life and you choose to shut God out by not praying, He isn’t going to send things to harm you, however, He may get your attention by shaking things up a bit.  He only comes when asked. Our God is a jealous God *Exodus 34:14 and He wants us to talk to Him, He wants us to open up to Him.  He wants us to be in one accord with Him.  But we have to be the ones to come to Him.


When this movie comes out in August, please make arrangements to go see it.  There are so many resources that will be available once the movie opens, at http://warroomthemovie.com/ August 28th at cinemas near you!!  I will definitely be seeing it again!  I want to thank Family Christian Stores for the opportunity to be allowed to see it.  As resources become available, you will be able to find them on the Family Christian website and on the movie’s website http://warroommovieresources.com/   Or you can link up with the movie  on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/warroomthemovie (just an FYI, nothing is available now, but will be up soon and ready for the August 28th Premier)

The majority of this movie, is clean and safe for any age, however, there are some innuendos about having an affair.  There are some pretty heated words, and talking about the opposite sex as an object not a human.

Also when we sat down for the premier there was a video that played that was very embarrassing for me.  Pray that your theater will not have this video.  It was not part of the premiers and it was about 25 minutes before the move started.  But was very inappropriate

Other than these very few things, this movie was great.  I do believe that it would be way above a level that an 8 year old could comprehend.   I highly recommend this movie for anyone that wants to improve their prayer life


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David Phelps – Freedom – Review

I received a copy of this CD in exchange for an honest review

WOW!! What can I say about this CD? Other than it is AMAZING!!!
David rocks it out of the park AGAIN!!
This CD is of beautiful songs – about Freedom
David’s bold tenor voice packs an amazing punch with these very impressive songs.
Some are remakes of old hymnals like “We Shall Behold Him” my very favorite on the entire CD. Others like Ain’t No Grave’,   “When the Saints Go Marching In”, as well as 9 new songs written entirely for this CD

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click_to_tweet Words of Hope In Christ Jesus! We shall behold Him, in all of His glory!! What freedom He offers us in the glory of his face!

You can purchase this CD from Family Christian Stores Here. As well as many other CD’s of David’s.
There are so many selections and Family Christian’s prices are so incredible. Just like this CD.
I love David Phelps and it has been a pleasure to have been able to review this.


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Track List

I’m Coming Home
Who Do You Say That I Am
Ghost Town (Freedom)
Little White Church
Ain’t No Grave
We Shall Behold Him
What I Need is You
Holy (Sanctus)
Parable of the River
Your Time Will Come
The Lily
Heaven’s Shore
When the Saints Go Marching In

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A Heart’s Disguise By Collen Coble Blog Tour and Giveaway


In the midst of end-of-war celebrations, Sarah discovers her betrothed was keeping a devastating secret in Colleen Coble’s A Heart’s Disguise. Will Sarah leave her dying father’s side for the only man she’s ever loved? And what plans are forming in the jealous heart of Ben Croftner?
Celebrate book one in Colleen’s A Journey of the Heart series by entering to win a Kindle Fire and RSVPing to her May 5th author chat party!
One grand prize winner will receive:

  • A Kindle Fire
  • A copy of A Heart’s Disguise\
  • A copy of A Heart’s Obsession (blog tour coming in April)
  • A Copy of A Heart’s Obsession (Blog Tour Coming In April)
  • A copy of The Inn at Ocean’s Edge (blog tour coming in April)


Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 7th. Winner will be announced May 8th on Colleen’s website. Plus be sure to clear your calendar on the evening of May 5th because Colleen is hosting an author chat party on Facebook to celebrate her A Journey of the Heart series and the release of The Inn at Ocean’s Edge! RSVP here!


A Heart’s Disguise (Thomas Nelson, March 2015)
In the aftermath of the Civil War, a young woman searches for her lost love at thA-Hearts-Disguise-1-227x384e edge of the West.
The Civil War has destroyed Sarah Montgomery’s marriage before it’s even begun.
After Sarah receives word that her fiancé, Rand Campbell, has been killed fighting for the Union, her brothers and ailing father persuade her to pledge herself to Ben Croftner—despite her strong misgivings. But when Sarah finds out that Rand is in fact alive—and that Ben Croftner knew it—she indignantly breaks off the engagement and goes in search of Rand.
But Ben Croftner does not take rejection lightly—and a single woman with a sick father makes an easy target. When Sarah is abducted by her treacherous fiancé, Rand finally comes to her aid . . . only to reveal that he has been posted at Fort Laramie, Wyoming, and intends to take her there as his wife.
But could Sarah leave her dying father’s side for the love of her life? And what plans are forming in the jealous heart of Ben Croftner?

Learn more and purchase a copy at the Thomas Nelson website.




USA Today bestselling author Colleen Coble has written several romantic suspense novels including “Tidewater Inn,” “Rosemary Cottage,” and the Mercy Falls, Lonestar, and Rock Harbor series.

Find out more about Colleen at  http://www.colleencoble.com/ 

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Let God Speak Through You – Review

Disclaimer:  I received an advanced reader copy of this book, in exchange for my honest review.

How Many Times Do I Have to Tell You?  –

What God Wants Us Tp Hear When We Talk To Our Kids by Rachael Carman


I took 4 of my grandchildren on a mini-vacation this weekend.  Sortof.  The joke was on me.  The ages of said grandchildren are 12, 11, 10 and 9.  the oldest three are girls.  Two sisters and then a sister and brother.  Let me tell you, I had a truly eye opening weekend.  Through no fault of their own, these kids have been through some major trials in their young lives. 

But they are all Christians, they are all straight A-B students, great behavior, excel in things like Music, Basketball, UIL, Football and just about anything they touch. 

Their personalities, are 1) perfectionist 2) slob 3)wanna be the boss 4) and is the boss (as long as I let him think he is)

Anyway, that being said.  There were 6 of us in a hotel room that was about 300 sq feet.  Less than 24 hours.  Let me just say, a 30000 sq ft home would not have been big enough :)

I’m telling you all of this because when I came home, I came home in tears at my behavior to them.  My “reactions” were horrible.  There was yelling, crying, so many things that were inappropriate for them..  I was abusive with my words.  I am appalled at my actions, and very embarrassed.

After lots of prayer and then reading a book called How Many Times Do I Have To Tell You; I KNEW I had to apologize to these beautiful children. 

These kids are my life and my heart.  While that doesn’t excuse their behavior this weekend, I know my words were horrible.  I listened to myself in retrospect, and I am so glad that my heavenly father does not talk to me the way I need to be spoken too.

Or I would probably tell Him what they told me,  “we don’t want to go anywhere overnight with you anymore”

Talk about straight to the heart.  But they are right.  We do this to God every single day.  Until you listen to him, and I mean really listen to Him, your voice (general voice) is going to sting.  Sometimes, you need to just keep your mouth shut, be still and let Him do the talking to you.    Let HIM say the words.  Let HIM speak through you. 

Rachel Carman goes through this in her book How Many Times Do I Have To Tell You

With a heart to heart with God and a heart to heart with my grandchildren, I pray that my words will be soft, gentle, loving, and be words that God talks to me with.

I love these kids so very much.  I have apologized face to face to them.  Now today is library day and church and my day to pick them up after school.  I pray that my words are kind, loving and respectful.

I am off to write some apology letters and put the words in writing so that they can see and not just hear me talk.  They heard enough this weekend.  Now they and I need to hear God and come back to a place where we are  walking with the King together. That means, our words to each other should be our best.  If you can’t talk your best to your family, who should you give those loving words too.  God gives us so many words to say and the love behind it.  We must follow his example and mold ourselves like Him.

So when I go to them today, please pray with me that they get my best, because they deserve every single bit of respect I can give them.


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10 Ways to Get your Child’s Attention without Yelling

This is part of a series on Teen Mom’s from Tricia Goyer

Please check out Tricia’s New book Teen Mom: You’re Stronger Than You Think


10 Ways to Get your Child’s Attention without Yelling

Parenting teaches you a lot about yourself, doesn’t it? You’ve probably been tempted to scream at your kids more times than you’d care to admit. You’re not alone.

Have you ever heard the “wah wah wah wah” of Charlie Brown’s teacher come out of your mouth? Have you ever wanted to jump on the table and yell to the rafters? Have you ever heard yourself say, “Why won’t you listen to me?” This list is for you.

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This is a guest post on Tricia Goyer’s site, by Jenny Harman, you can read about Jenny here
About Jenny
Asjenny the Public Relations manager for Home Educating Family, Jenny Herman enjoys interacting with homeschoolers through HEDUA’s social media and her special needs column in their magazine. She and her husband Greg are learning to view life through the eyes of their sons—one with an Autism Spectrum disorder and one with a propensity for pretending. You’ll find lots of interesting stories about finding grace in autism over at her blog, ManyHatsMommy.com.






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Prayers for Your Children: 90 Days of Heartfelt Prayers for Children of Any Age – Review

Have you ever thought about why you pray for your children, or even how to pray for your children?
You pray for their health, their safety, their friends, their school work, their future spouses, future kids, future grandchildren. You pray. It doesn’t matter what the subject is, but you as a parent know that you need to pray.
But praying takes on a whole new level when you know why!
Praying for your children is split up into different weeks. Based on Different overall subjects like, Knowing Mom’s Gift, Growing Marks in God’s Doorway, Fruitful, the Mess and the Message. Just to name a few. I loved the way that the book was split up into bigger subjects,  daily you are given messages based on a certain way to pray for each day.
Banks takes the book and splits it up into practical advice like this based on a verse a subject that intertwines with our prayer life for our kids and breaks it down into a short devotional that is easy to read, easy to relate too and easy to recognize (in the Bible); One of my favorites, Day 69, Crouching Sin and Singing Angels. What a fun title to read about your kids with! Based on Genesis 4:7 that says Sin is crouching at your door, it desires to rule over you, but you must win over it
Can you imagine if parents everywhere started praying for their children to WIN OVER SIN?
What a world we would live in!


So this is the kind of things we should want to pray over our children. Sometimes, parents can just talk to God and ask them to protect their children as eloquently as anything but sometimes, parents do not know what to say, or even how to say it effectively. It’s all right there for you, even up to the Bible verses that go along right there with it
I will use this book over and over and especially when times are rough. My children are all grown, however, the subjects still relate or they are easy to be able to move it from a young child to an adult child in some format. That and then grandchildren. This devotional can be used for generations and used by generations. If you need something simple, practical and Godly










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Killing Christians – Book Review/Giveaway



Mr. Doyle gives us so many examples of Christians who literally, choose God.  They are given a choice, choose life, or choose God.

Could you?  I know what I hope I would choose, however, when it comes right down to it, would I choose God?

One man says it would be an honor to die for Jesus by crucifixion.  Syrians live with that life of sacrifice. 

Remember the theater where men came in and offered a choice, either get up and walk out or die for “your” God

Just like He died for us.  Laid down His life for us, with no questions asked.  He came to earth for a purpose and that was so we wouldn’t have to lay down our lives like that

Only now, in today’s world, so many live with this decision every single day.  Not because they are missionaries that go to the ends of the earth, or pastors that teach the gospel for career, but they are simply Christians.  A choice they made to follow Christ.  Gives them the distinct decision by some, to have to make a choice in their lives.  Live for family, Die for Christ.  

This book is very hard to read.  It’s not your weekend feel good book.  It is hard.  Even though you know the reason for the book and the facts behind the book.  Having it displayed before you is a way that you never think about, because for the most part, here in America we do not have these things happening, or didn’t, however, there is no one excluded.  No place is safe.

Then you hear stories like Columbine, the church in TX, a theater in Colorado  and so many other places where Christians are given a choice. 

Claim Jesus or Live.

When father’s kill their sons, sons kill their fathers and more family kill more family.  This is the vicious cycle that people who believe in Christ go through.


Claim Jesus or live. 

All the stories were told in this book are violent, they are heart wrenching.  I strongly urge you, that if you are going to read this book, be in a good place in your own heart with Jesus Christ.  This book is not only heart wrenching, it seriously has so many parts that are just sad.  I cried my eyes out, to know that family(s) are fighting against family. Family’s praying because they know that they will soon be dead for claiming Jesus.

“Being Martyred” For Jesus.  Their blind faith in Jesus Christ something we should all strive for.  How sad that we as Christians cannot live that true, abundant faith that some Christians have and knowing that even saying the word Jesus will get them killed (not if) but will.  Just a matter of when.

I am very serious about making sure that you re in a good place.  Pray through the entire book.  Pray constantly.

The prayers that you say will land on God’s ears. 

This way of life is extremely dangerous for these people and they face it .  Remembering that it can only take one person to ask you to choose.   Jesus or Life. 

al-Qaeda, ISIS, Muslim Radicals, (that means not all Muslims are bad people) Syrians, Saddam Hussein, each leader that believes in violence in the name of put our faith at risk each day.  Whether you live in an area that has this daily or we live in America where walking into a theater can be the same risk. 

Pray for each person that Doyle brings to you in this book, their family, their life.  Whether there is martyr or they are the person behind the guns, doing the senseless slaughter, they are all Children of God, and they need our prayers, they need our forgiveness. 


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Stay: Lessons My Dogs Taught Me About Life, Loss and Grace




Dave Burchett, leads us on a story of goodness and grace through the life he leads with his dogs, but mostly with his best life friend, Hannah, a golden retriever, the dog his family had during one of the lowest times of their life.

When Burchett’s wife was diagnosed with cancer, he started a journal. The book is written from the first person, and as journal entries I loved that about the book. This book was fantastic.

During Joni’s cancer treatments, Hannah stayed by their side and seems to “read” her owners behaviors and their love. Giving them some comfort and peace during each treatment and after her surgery. Then sweet Hannah was diagnosed with cancer.

They chose a course of treatment that would only make Hannah comfortable and keep her out of pain.

During those next few months they saw a lifetime of love, and grace in the way that Hannah lived her life. Putting their needs first. Hannah lived in the moment and was free. One of the best quotes in the book was when the vet told them this “dogs don’t fear death, they live in the moment”

After Hannah’s illness took her, Dave thought he would never be able to love again, however, when he saw sweet Savannah’s face, he fell in love.

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When they brought Savannah home, they knew that her name was too close to Hannah’s so they eventually changed her name to Maggie. In doing so they learned that Maggie, didn’t really realize her name well. When they enrolled Maggie in obedience class, they learned the things she needed. In doing so they learned Maggie needed a leader, someone to take her and tell her yes, no, sit, stay, the commands in every dog’s life, as well as teach her to walk on a leash and guide.

Dave took each lesson that he learned and related it back to the Bible with a timely Bible verse, or story from the Bible and this book became a lesson, literally on grace, and humility. Love, loss and learning.
Learning from your dog is a very gracious thing because of what they can teach you. Turning that back and about Jesus Christ and how much He sacrificed for us.

What a blessing this book was for me. While I love my dog with all my heart and they are treated basically like royalty in my home, I was able to see that every day they give us everything they have every minute of their life.
God gives us everything we have, we just have to accept it. What a graceful life lesson this book is. I highly urge you to read it. Read it with your Bible in hand and get a great Bible study as well as just a great read!





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Choose Joy

As I sat here thinking about how crazy, I was to volunteer to write a devotional, one word kept going through my heart. 



As a Christian, how can I be depressed? How can I be this sad, knowing that I have a Lord and Savior who loves me with all my heart and offers to collect my tears, gives me mercy and grace and promised me eternity with Him?

Psalm 36:17-18 tells me that 

When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.

I was diagnosed as having major depression and bipolar my entire adult life.  While I will spare you details about all my treatments and therapies, I will let you know about the last few years. 

Due to circumstances in my life over the past eight years of so, let’s just say there have been catastrophic illnesses, financial struggles, failed business, marital struggles, my sisters near fatal accident and my father’s death. 

I spent four years in a very intensive therapy; four hours a day, five days a week. 

I’m telling you all of this because during this time, I also worked in our Youth Ministry as well as our Audiovisual Tech Team (this was a ministry that I built from the beginning when we had just started integrating a new program instead of using PowerPoint); for all the world to see (more about this later). Now I am a very private, introverted, not social, want to be alone kind of person. 

I was so blessed by God and I didn’t realize it. Regardless of the circumstances, however, inside there were days that I literally cried the entire day, or couldn’t get out of bed and feigned that I felt too bad and didn’t leave home for a few weeks except for therapy. 

Fast forward to the time that I officially “graduated therapy” I became elated. 

Then my husband’s affair happened with my best friend, my sister’s wreck and my dad went into hospice.   All within days of each other.

As I was in Bible Study one day, and I was reading Ann Voskamp’s 1000 Gifts, and I realized, right that moment, I was letting the enemy win!!! 


How could I work as a ministry assistant, a tech guru, a volunteer replacement Secretary Supply? How could I keep going down the path I was on? 

Fast forward a bit.  

I got so excited about the release of 1000 Gifts, that I actually had ordered four copies without realizing it. While going forward with the book, the challenge, etc., I also realized what Ann was saying; truly applied to my life.  I was NOT choosing, to “Choose Joy”.

Oh my — how immature of me in my Godly walk.  After many prayers, much-needed dates with God,

I made a decision.  Well honestly, God GAVE me the blessing, given the circumstances, to say to myself.  I choose joy!!!  He told me when I woke up in the mornings to think about the day and think about it in the practical aspect, of “I Choose Joy Today”

I am going to get out of bed and make rational, conscious decisions to choose to be positive. 

When I saw my sister lying in the hospital bed in a coma, ‘Choose Joy’ because she is alive.

When I saw my dad dying, ‘Choose Joy’ because I knew he was going to Heaven and going to be pain-free soon.

When the Youth minister left our church, I was not needed there anymore, and the ministry that I started and grew as our Audiovisual ministry, and I was told my services were not needed, no explanation, just no longer needed. I plunged, and I plunged deep. After a period of grief, I realized my problem. I looked at it as MY ministry, not God’s. Oh how wrong I was, and I can see that now.   During all that, I must ‘Choose Joy’

I can see now that I am out of the situation that caused it to begin with. That was my own selfishness talking. After a period of grief, I realized my problem. I looked at it as MY ministry, not God’s. Oh how wrong I was, and I can see that at this now. I can see now that I am out of the situation that caused it to begin with. 

I needed to ‘Choose Joy’ because God gave us the ability to have a youth ministry and a new youth minister who was just awesome and was organized enough that he didn’t need an assistant, and God blessed us with so many things within our church during this time period. I had to open my eyes and realize that what was happening was for God’s benefit. To that I had to ask myself, how can you not “Choose Joy”? 

On the day my husband and I fought about his affair with my best friend. I had to ‘Choose Joy’ because we decided divorce is not an option, and he was willing to work on our marriage, what a blessing that we chose joy.  

 ‘Choose Joy’ no matter what you are doing, whether it is as good thing, or a struggle, makes your day so much better. When you put a smile on your face (not that fake one you plaster on to tell everyone “I’m fine”) but a real, unencumbered smile. A smile that says, I Choose to be Happy, and I freely choose to love a God that lets me have that option and through everything He gives me, blessings, good, bad, hard, easy, JOY wins throughout it all. 

Now don’t get me wrong. I still take my medication. I am, however, depressed on days, and at the same time. I know that I can see the joy in anything if I look hard enough 

I am not saying that your days will magically become perfect. They won’t. The struggles will still be there. 

By ‘Choosing Joy’, your days become joy filled because you make them that way. By seeing the beauty in the fall leaves, or the drop of water on a glass that makes the rainbow colors, in the laugh of a baby, or the person in hospice that is dying, but you KNOW they are going to Heaven. What an enormous Joy that will be. The day we see Jesus in person. 

Where every day is with a joy, we have never met here on earth. 

Wake up to joy every single day, and you will find that even with depression and being bipolar, you can see happiness. 

Now I wouldn’t be responsible enough if I didn’t add a disclaimer here. If you are struggling with depression, and you are to the point where you feel like you want to hurt yourself or someone else, please seek help. Ask someone to help you get help. On the other hand, if you know someone who is in that place, please take every word they say earnestly 

I have been in those shoes, in two ways; being the person who wanted to hurt myself, and the one left by a person who has completed their suicide. 

Take them for their word, get them help and pray.  but you can’t fix them.  They must find it within himself to want to be fixed and the desire to get up everyday and ‘choose joy’

This activity of Choosing Joy, while it’s a great thing, for some, they can’t see past their own pain. 

1 Thessalonians 16:18, NIV be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s

will for you in Christ Jesus.  

Now you can also say that this looks and sounds easy. This was by far the hardest thing I have ever done, looking for blessings even in the bad times, no matter what. 
I am a negative person by trait. However, I choose to be a positive person and wake up to

‘ Choosing Joy’ every single day.


 If you are reading this, somehow you are interested in depression, or you have depression or God has led you here maybe to help someone, or whatever reason you are reading this.


Know that you are being prayed for. I have poured my heart out here and prayed over these words. I am also going to continue praying for everyone that reads this! God knows exactly who you are and exactly what you need and exactly why you need it.







Great Little Book About Foster Care


short book that would hold a toddler’s attention and keep them interested in this little book. What’s a Foster Family ? (Foster to Forever) tells in kids words a process that way too many children have to follow at this point.
It does a great job in laying out what a foster family is, but I feel it lacks in telling what a forever family is. however, a reader has to read it from the viewpoint of a toddler so those words and even using the word “forever” can be over their head.
All in all, the book does a very good job. It is brief, to the point and just tells the need to know information and that is what I like about this book.

What’s a Foster Family?

Alex’s an only child who’s used to having Mommy and Daddy all to himself.
So when his parents start doing foster care and little Malik joins their home, Alex’s not so sure he’s happy about sharing.

Buy Book from Amazon (U.S. English): http://www.amazon.com/Whats-Foster-Family-Forever/dp/1505418771/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1425066358&sr=8-2&keywords=anne+garboczi+evans

Author Bio:

Anne Garboczi Evans is a mental health counselor, military spouse, author, and mama to an opinionated little toddler named “Joe-Joe.”Anne and her husband are getting licensed as foster parents in Colorado, so soon their house will be exploding with little voices, little feet, and diapers, diapers everywhere.
Follow Anne on FB: https://www.facebook.com/annegarboczievans
On Twitter: https://twitter.com/garboczievans
On Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/garboczievans/

Illustrator Bio:

Helen Cochrane is 47 years old. She met her husband Kenny when she was 16 and married at 27. They have two children, Amy and Adam, and one pet cat. Helen lives in Scotland and doesn’t drive. She supports teenagers with special needs when she’s not doodling. Helen describes herself as an immature, mature illustration student. Her goal this year is to create a website for her illustration work. Life is good.
Follow Helen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WestLothianArtist
On Twitter: https://twitter.com/WestLoArtist
On Authors & Illustrators: http://www.artistsandillustrators.co.uk/HelenCochrane/blog/2132

Meet the Author: Anne Garboczi Evans

  1. How long have you been writing? I finished my first novel at age fifteen and promptly sent a proposal out to a publisher. Thank goodness they didn’t actually publish it! I can’t even look at that novel anymore without blushing at how badly written it was. :)
  2. What inspired you to write What’s a Foster Family?
    My husband and I were in the process of getting licensed as foster parents last year when I started to worry about how we would explain the twists and turns of foster siblings to our then 2-year-old son. There are lots of I’m a Big Brother/Sister books you can read to your toddler when you’re pregnant, but there was nothing to introduce a child to the idea of foster siblings. So I wrote What’s a Foster Family? for our son, “Joe-Joe.”

  3. Will there be a sequel?
    Helen and I are planning to release a sequel to What’s a Foster Family? in November 2015 for U.S. National Adoption month.

  4. What other kind of books do you write?
    My literary agent is Linda Glaz of Hartline Literary. All my book proposals out right now are adult books. The one I’m most excited about is a book about world religions called No Fear: My Tale of Hijabs, Witchcraft Circles, & the Cross. As a mental health counselor, I also have written books about anxiety and depression, domestic violence, and dealing with PTSD as a military spouse. But I’m still awaiting book contracts and publication dates on those books.

4.What is the most common misunderstanding you see in how people view foster care?
That foster kids are “bad” kids. Sure these kids come from traumatic backgrounds, but they’re just kids. And they need love and support as much and more than any other kid.

  1. What are your advocacy goals?
    Every county, state, and country I’ve researched is short on foster families. I hope that What’s a Foster Family? will inspire more families around the world to open their hearts and homes to foster children. I also hope that the book will help kids have more understanding and acceptance for their classmates, friends and relatives who are foster children.
  • What advice would you give to aspiring authors?
    Marry a rich man. ;) But seriously, making a living as an author is easier said than done. I’d suggest that aspiring authors first evaluate their writing goals. (Is writing a hobby or a job for you?) Here’s a blog series I wrote to help writers figure that question out. And then, knowing the odds, if you decide to try to make a professional career out of your writing, market like crazy. You should start your social media pages and blog the same day you put pen to paper for the first page of your first book.

  • Meet the Illustrator: Helen Cochrane

    1. How long have you been illustrating?
      3 years formally, but I’ve been drawing since I could hold a crayon
  • What inspired the characters/pictures you created in What’s a Foster Family?
    I took inspiration for the family from the author’s own family with some poetic license. The other characters came from lots of sketching and my imagination.

  • Are you looking to take on more illustrating work? How does that work?
    I’m looking for an agent and I’m hoping to write and illustrate my own children’s books sometime in the near future. Authors can contact me via my online sites and we can discuss possible projects.

  • What inspired your interest in advocating for foster kids?
    I have worked in education for the past 14 years, supporting teenagers from all backgrounds, including looked-after children and I have seen the immense benefits that fostering provides.

  • What’s your favorite children’s book?
    As a child it was Milly Molly Mandy by Joyce Lankester Brisley. I loved sharing in her little adventures. My favourite one now would have to be No Matter What by Debi Gliori. A book I have read many times to our children.

  • Who’s your favorite illustrator/artist?
    I have many, but one of my favourite illustrators is Arthur Rackham and I also love Gustav Klimt.

  • What is your favorite vacation spot?
    London is a family favourite. Lots to do. But I loved Paris too.

  • What advice would you give to aspiring illustrators?

  • Lots of sketching. Never settle for “that’ll do”. Always push yourself and most importantly, enjoy.

    Fast Facts about Foster Care in the United States: There are 400,000 children in foster care in the U.S. Over 100,000 of these children are eligible for adoption, but each year over 20,000 will age out without ever being adopted. Thirty-one percent of the children in foster care were under the age of 3 when they first entered care. The average stay in foster care until a child re-unifies with family or is adopted is twenty-two months.

    Fast Facts about Foster Care in the U.K.: Almost 70,000 children are in care. Twenty-three percent of the children are 4 and under. If a looked-after child is not able to return home, the average time he/she is in care until being adopted is 18 months. Five thousand children a year are adopted from care. But 6,000 children a year age out of the system without ever reunifying or being adopted.

    Fast Facts about Foster Care in Canada: About 80,000 children are in care in Canada. Thirty-thousand of these children are in need of an adoptive home. While there aren’t great national statistics on the children in foster care, experts estimate that several thousand Canadian foster children age out every year without ever reunifying or being adopted.

    Fast Facts about Foster Care in Australia: There are about 40,000 children in foster care in Australia. About 3,000 foster children age out every year without ever reunifying or being adopted.
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    My Story – The Unveiled Wife




    what a fantastic book.

    however, I found it very hard to read.

    not because Jen is a poor author,

    but because words she said, poured off the pages and into my heart

    and they hit home 

    I mean slapped me in the face with a 2×4.

    Even just today, I went through a struggle with my husband again, with no communication and words said that hurt (on both sides) things done that hurt, and because of this, I pull my veil down even further and we separated even further.

    I honestly, don’t think I really recognized our struggle until a couple of years ago.

    My dad was in hospice, my sister had a very tragic accident that left her in a coma, and my husband chose then to leave me.  Was his time good?  nope… Was his reasons valid?  very much so on some things, did it work out.  Well let me just say we are an everyday work in progress.

    Jen’s chapter in her book about Jealousy is me.  I mean to a tee.  She could have replaced “I” with Laura and the book would have read the same, except for the husband name and places.

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    My struggle with jealousy is very real.  I say in my heart that I am not jealous, however, I know I am.

    and rightfully so.  

    My husband has cheated on my three times.  twice with very close friends.  

    Those friends are no longer friends, although I did what Jesus says and turned the other cheek.  This struggle is so real.  First because of the act itself (only one was physical) but the other two hurt just as bad for their own reasons, because of the lies, the mistrust, the false words, the fake women, when they would talk to me.  So many reasons.  

    So yeah, my struggle with jealousy is so real and I know God says it’s a sin.  However, let me tell you this.  It is the enemy.

    The enemy will kill in so many ways.  I may throw one of my jealous tantrums, and it drives a wedge between us as it should.  My husband has every right to protect himself..  

    After all these years of being married and going through all the things that we have like catastrophic illnesses with both of us a son that was very ill (thank God for His wondrous healing) and job losses, and many other things that millions of couples go through all the time.  We still can’t talk to each other sometimes the right way, and that is when the enemy wins.

    The thing I mentioned just today.  My husband works at night  so I am either still asleep when he gets home or am waking up.  Tonight he was very late coming in, I knew he was going to be late, so I took that time to rest.  Well when he came in, he didn’t tell me that he was going in that many hours late.  I went on with my day just like normal and ready to meet him back at home after he had gotten up with his dinner and to help me carry in the groceries.    I call him from the grocery store cause he should be awake by now.  “Oh I’m not getting up till 3 hours later than normal”  Because of my illness, I cannot carry groceries, so I planned it around him being up, bought dinner and then by the time he was ready for work, he could carry the groceries in.   I got met with the biggest attitude and hatefulness and then I reacted all because we cannot talk to each other, or won’t.  I really haven’t figured that out yet.  This is just one small example of how we let the enemy win, instead of turning to God when we need Him most

    If your marriage is going to work, you must lift that veil and totally communicate with your spouse.  I mean everything that is even remotely important, even if you think it’s not.  

    for one thing, it’s disrespectful not to clue your spouse in on your plans for the day.

    two, that communication time is a bonding time

    three, God tells us in I Corinthians 13: 4-6 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

    so giving all you have to the one you love is the right thing to do  Giving all is communicating, being trustworthy, being loyal, not being jealous and above all loving no matter what.

    Am I recusing my jealousy by things that have been done to me?  absolutely not   My husband sought out forgiveness from me  He deserves the respect I can give him, in NOT being jealous, and then I need to seek out more communication, and I need to be the one to instill our life plans, regardless of what he does.  I need to talk, I need to praise, I need to give him 100% of myself.

    Because Jealousy and Communication go hand in hand remember this.  Jealousy is the enemy.  Plain and clear.  No one else.  Lack of Communication is a growth part for each of you, or rather a lack of growth. Because of my jealousy and my lack of communication I make my marriage, a marriage that is less than…  

    To confide in one another is one of the most intimate parts of being married.  Every act of physical love, starts with talking.  This intimacy begins with your being intimate with God  Alone and Together

    I strongly urge any married couple, any couple that is thinking of getting married and anyone praying for a future spouse to read this book The Unveiled Wife

    below is an A Powerful & Inspirational Open Letter From A Wife – The Unveiled Wife

    Marriage is a mosaic you build with your ­spouse—millions of tiny moments that create your love story.


     So many great quotes are in this book, that I have taped around my home, in my prayer journal and in my car, to remind me that I am not perfect, my sins are there, and I’m 100% in this marriage, and 100% a part of the reason that we struggle. – marriage is not 50-50.  It is each partner giving 100% all the time.

    You can go download the first chapter here. http://unveiledwife.com/#free-chapter


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    Runaway Radical


    Can you imagine being 18 years old, giving away everything you have on earth living in a closet so that you feel closer to the people you are trying to help?
    Jonathan Hollingsworth is just that person. He shares his story in Runaway Radical writing with his mom, Amy Hollingsworth.
    This book is full of love for others, disdain for others, abuse of power and so many other emotions that a young man can feel traveling half way across the world
    Jonathan travels to Africa to “change the world” and ends up home in less than four months.
    This is his encounter with people who used him, people who cared for him and most of all encounters with God and HIS emotions that came with all the above.
    Jonathan’s part in the book are blurbs from his blog while he was in Africa, and it gives you a really intense look into his life in Africa. Amy’s writing tells Jonathan’s story from a completely different aspect, as a mom’s point of view and how she sees her son and the limited information that he tells his parents.
    This story tells you of the cautionary things to beware of when you work in the “new culture” of radical Christian Service.
    *(like giving up all your worldly goods to be able to understand what those you are helping live through)

    Maybe we’re just meant to love the person in front of us. That way we are not picking and choosing; we are just doing. #RunawayRadical

    Maybe we’re just meant to love the person in front of us. That way we are not picking and choosing; we are just doing. #RunawayRadical

    One thing that they say and I just fully took to prayer was this.

    “Conviction is stronger than obligation, and it is the only thing that separates sacrifice from slavery. This is where grace sets us free. It is in our very ability to choose that we find the strength to do so Grace gives us the freedom to do good.
    It wasn’t until I stopped trying to script my story that things out of my control began to come together. And because I had no part in my healing, I have no solution to give.”

    This book is great for anyone that is considering going on any foreign mission trips, or is helping with local missions.
    Jonathan’s views are a great reminder that things sometimes go wrong, however, when you leave God, things get worse. Realizing that God’s arms are where you belong all the time.


    You can buy this book at Family Christian Stores.  Click on the book and it will take you to the store front to buy it.

    This book was truly heart altering for me in how I will pray for our missionaries at home and abroad.






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    God is Not Punishing You For Your Past Sins

    Tricia Goyer has a new book releasing March 3 called Teen Mom: You’re Stronger Than You Think which you can buy from any online retailer like Family Christian Store.   Tricia Pours her heart into this book, and about her life to try to bring a simple honesty to teen moms everywhere.  God is not punishing you for past sins.  God is a good God and doesn’t do that.    

    I hope you enjoy this post from Tricia as she literally gives her heart and soul for this cause because she is a TeenMom and can understand what you are going through because she has been there done that. – Memaw


    Everything changes the day you discover you’re going to be a mom. It’s not just yourself that you think about—you have a child to care for, too. While you wouldn’t trade your child for the world, some days are just hard. Baby-daddy drama, dealing with your parents, and worries about school, work, and your future slam you. Your friends can’t relate to your little family, and you wonder if God has turned His back on you, too.

    Tricia Goyer understands. A mom at age 17, Tricia remembers what it felt like to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. She’s also been the coordinator of a teen mom support group for over twelve years, and she’s cheered on many young moms—from all walks of life—through their journey.

    In Teen Mom, Tricia pours out her heart and shares advice for the hard things you face. She also longs to provide encouragement, reminding you that you can be the mom your child deserves—not in your own strength, but in the strength God provides

    God Is Not Punishing You - article by Tricia Goyer

    God is Not Punishing You For Your Past Sins

    The other day I was mindlessly scrolling my Facebook feed when a headline caught my eye: “Toni Braxton Once Believed God Gave Her Son Autism Because Of Her Past Abortion.” My heart clenched as I read that—not only because of Toni’s pain and shame, but because of my own.

    As a fifteen-year-old young woman I found myself pregnant.


    Overwhelmed with despair and seeking advice, I went to a Planned Parenthood clinic. The “counselor” looked across the table and focused on my eyes. “You’re young. You have your whole life ahead of you. An abortion is the best choice.”

    “But . . . what about the baby?” I’d asked.

    “It’s not a baby,” she told me. “Right now it’s just a few cells. The doctor’s just scraping them out.”

    I bought into her lie and I scheduled an abortion, even though deep down I knew it was a baby. I knew if I didn’t intervene I’d be holding a child in my arms in seven months. And that scared me, too.

    Later, I was horrified to find out that not only did those “few cells” have a beating heart, but little arms and legs and lips and tiny ears. Knowing that, the shame pressed down even more and I walked through life feeling numb, unable to face the truth of my decision.

    Then I found myself pregnant again at age seventeen.

    This time I was determined to carry my child. (I found out later that many young women who’ve had an abortion have another baby within a few years. It’s an “atonement child” of sorts.)

    It was during this second pregnancy that I turned my life over to God. I prayed, “God, if you can do anything with my life, please do.” God has done amazing things. He gave me a beautiful son, and later brought me a wonderful Christian husband. Everything was going well in my life, but I still was ashamed of my past. Few people knew about my abortion, and I was sure they’d hate me if they found out.

    A few years after John and I were married, I found out I was pregnant. I was so excited to have a baby with my husband. Finally, I’m doing things right. Yet a couple of months later I woke up in a pool of blood, and I knew two things:

    First, I’d lost my baby.

    And second, God was punishing me for my abortion.


    My heart aches for the young me, who didn’t understand God’s complete forgiveness. @TriciaGoyer   download

    Looking back, my heart aches for the young me, a woman who still didn’t understand God’s complete forgiveness. I saw God as a stern judge who was weighing all my deeds and found me wanting.

    For years I felt my abortion was too much for God to forgive. I had a hard time forgiving myself. It was only when I attended a Bible study and worked through the book Forgiven and Set Free that I realized Jesus’ death covered all my sins. Who was I to say my sin was greater than His sacrifice?

    The freedom I’m walking in today comes from understanding who God is. My sin was horrible, yes. I’ll always regret not having that child, discovering who he or she is and spending this life together.

    Yet, I’m thankful for the eternity to come. I’m thankful that in God’s eyes I stand clean before Him, as white as snow. God is not a God who punishes us for our sin. There are natural consequences for our sins—pain and shame and regret were some of the consequences I faced—yet God offers forgiveness and grace. These are not dependent on who we are but on who He is.

    As Romans 8:1-2 says, “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death.”

    Maybe you’re like me. Maybe you are carrying around the pain and shame from past sin. And maybe you’re thinking God is punishing you for mistakes in your past. If so, then do two things.

    In your mind’s eye, go back to that moment of your sin. See your sin, and then look to your right hand. Picture Jesus standing there. There’s isn’t a look of anger in his gaze, but one of compassion. He is there waiting for you to turn to Him and find Him so you’ll have real, abundant life. He’s been there all along, and He’s waiting for you to give Him your whole heart.
    Picture Jesus on the cross. See Him there. Know His sacrifice is enough. Pray and thank Him for that.
    My prayer for you today, friend, is that you will find freedom in Jesus Christ that you’ve never known before. I pray you will begin to understand the breadth and length and height and depth of God’s love . . . not only for mankind, but also for you. Trust Him in that. Discover that truth for yourself today.

    It’s my prayer for Toni Braxton, too. That Jesus will meet her wherever she is, just as He met me.


    Tricia Goyer

    copied with permission

    Further Resources

    Life, In Spite of Me: Extraordinary Hope After a Fatal Choice by Kristen Jane Anderson and Tricia GoyerLife, In Spite of Me: Extraordinary Hope After A Fatal Choice by Kristen Jane Anderson and Tricia Goyer – For anyone struggling to find the strength to go on, the message of this heart-wrenching yet hope-building book is a clear and extraordinary reminder that even when we give up on life, God doesn’t give up on us.



    Winter Jam – 2015

    I have the privilege to be able to attend Winter Jam 2015

    I have always wanted to go to a WJ concert but for whatever reasons, I have never been able to attend.  however, this year.  It’s on!!!

    I am so excited about this.  Think about this

    SkilletJeremy CampFrancesca Battistelli, Building 429,  Family Force 5,  Newsong,

     For King and CountryBlanca,  About a Mile, Veridia,  

    Tony NolanMark Burnett and Roma Downey

    All of these artists in ONE PLACE, ONE DAY!  Does it get any better than this?

    I get the incredible privilege to review the concert, as I attend with one of my very best friends!

     You can check everything out at http://2015.jamtour.com/shows/detail/ft-worth-tx/ for the concert in Ft Worth, but to get to the main page, visit http://2015.jamtour.com/


    Have I said how excited I was to be able to go to this all day concert?   Now granted that’s a lot of music and a lot of people in one place at one time, however, it’s going to be so good, and just so amazing.  Winter Jam has made devotionals to go right along with the concert.  There are different devotionals set up for different aspects of the concert.  Some of the resources are the following.  All found on the Winter Jam Website

    Going Deeper

    Jam Creed

    Don’t Come Alone

    Follow Through

    Jesus Above Me

    Check out all these places that you can Visit a Jam Nation Tour Near You


    If you want to get even more information and better seats and just more out of your attendance to Winter Jam;

    then go join Jam Nation here.

    If you need more information and FAQ(s) everything you need can be found here.

    Watch this Video and then you can get the app, which is available for IOS, Android and iPad



    He must become greater and greater, I must become less and less John 3:30  

    What a powerful verse this is.  












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    Tricia Goyer – Teen Mom – You’re Stronger Thank You Think


    The Inspiration

    Young women make poor choices and find themselves pregnant, and there are loving people who are there to support them. I was one of those young women.

    In 1989, I was a teen mom, and I had my son when I was 17.

    In 1999 I helped to start a crisis pregnancy center.

    In 2001, I started a teen mom support group through MOPS International in rural Montana.

    In 2003, I wrote my book for teen moms (Life Interrupted: The Scoop On Being a Young Mom).

    In 2010, we moved to Little Rock, and I start a Teen MOPS support group in the inner city.

    Now this year my newly updated, newly titled book is out on March 3 (Teen Mom: You’re Stronger Than You Think)!

    Where I’d Like to See this Book:

    In the hands of youth pastors and pastors.
    In the hands of crisis pregnancy volunteers.
    In the hands of teen mom support group leaders.
    In the hands of high school counselors and teachers.
    In the hands of anyone who longs to offer hope to young women.

    all the above was from Tricia Goyer and the Media Press Release for Teen Moms: You Are Stronger Than You Think by Tricia Goyer

    My thoughts:

    These young women are human beings.  They need to be treated with respect and dignity and love.  That doesn’t mean you have to condone their actions, however God Tells us in 1 John 4:7-12

    7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. 8 Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9 In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. 10 In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. 11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

    Their sin is between God and them.  So give them all the love and support they need.  Let them know you love them, minister to them.  The best way to minister to them is to love them.  Show them love.  Do not shun them, do not disown them, do not give them hell about the sin.  Remember that sin is between God and them.  

    They are giving birth to a human being, a child of God, a person.  Your grandchild, your niece or nephew, your friend, your family, your acquaintance, whatever that precious child is.  Let them know you care and give them a hand up.  Do what you can to share the joy of the occasion which is that a child is born.  Mentor them on what is the best thing for them (keeping their child or giving it up for adoption) letting them know they’re loved  (I’ve said that I don’t know how many times) but that is key.  

    Can you imagine being 15 and pregnant or 16 and pregnant or 17 and pregnant?

    Let me give you a scenario here:

    Left out, shunned, hurt, hormones are driving your emotions, and you aren’t really sure what all is going on probably, Your parents are angry to the point that they shun you, or even ask you to leave their home.  No support, not financially, or emotionally but more importantly not spiritually???  Your boyfriend is being a jerk and won’t support you with the baby, either financially or spiritually or emotionally.  His parents can’t stand you, because they feel you “trapped him” and his football scholarship is in jeopardy because eventually he will HAVE to support this baby if she keeps it, or maybe she wants to give the child up for adoption and he wants to keep it.

    Where does this person get their love, where do they get their knowledge that there is a ONE TRUE KING AND HE LOVES HER. No matter what?   

    That person can be you.  She needs to be told that she God loves her, that she is forgiven if asked and that she can lay her sins at the feet of Jesus and live redeemed!  

    Again just by showering her with love and maybe even supporting her in other ways like finances or things for the baby and maternity clothes, giving her advice based on the Bible doesn’t mean that you condone what her sin was, however, you have no control over that.  It’s done.  There is only one that can do that.

    So if you are lead to this kind of ministry, find a Pregnancy Center or a TeenMops Group or if there isn’t one, start one!  

    Tricia Goyer has lots of great resources on her website to help you.

    Her newest book, coming soon to book stores and online retailers near you, is an incredible resource for you to hand to a young woman.  High School Counselors, Pregnancy Centers, Pastors, Youth Pastors, Counselors, High School Principals, Public Libraries or Church Libraries or if you just would like more insight.  

    It will be a great resource for you!  

    Okay, most of all, please just let her know that she God loves her, that she is forgiven if asked, and that she can lay her sins at the feet of Jesus and live redeemed!





    I am part of a Street Team for Tricia Goyer's New book!  This information is copied directly from documents given to bloggers to help spread the word

    Righting a Wrong – Book Review


    Righting a Wrong
    By Rachael Anderson
    Cambri Blaine makes her way home after 6 years of running.
    Her mother had passed away and she ran from memories of her mother and from her best friend.
    After her father, Harvey Blaine had a heart attack, she ended back up at Bridger. Back home to a father that was very angry with her leaving, angry that her mother died, angry about his heart attack. So angry that he just destroyed her mom’s beautiful garden and yard. So angry that he made barbs at her as she entered the door and make her very aware that he was hurt by her being gone for 6 years. Angry that he missed her and very scared to show her.
    Jace Sutton, stuck in Bridger, their hometown, because of family circumstances. Being in Bridger, Jace was face to face with his own memories of failed love, and a friend’s betrayal.
    Cambri and Jace were best friends growing up, however, they both avoided their feelings for each other.
    Cambri would be in Bridger for a while s running into Jace was a given. When she finally did, old feelings came rushing back, but she dare not say anything.
    Cambri, determined to help her father while she was there. Since she was a landscape artist by trade, she was also determined to rebuild her mother’s yard back to its former glory.
    In doing so, she then realized that Jace owned the store and would have to be seeing him .
    However, Jace made other plans and decided to help her. Just like he had helped Harvey while she was gone.
    So was it destiny, was it the will of Jace wanting to be around her, or just Jace feeling sorry for her, that made him spend the week, helping her with her mother’s yard?
    During this time of taking care of her dad, she also came to realize that she was wrong all those years ago. She loved Jace.
    After several weeks of avoiding the past with Jace, it was truly a ripple effect of, her father, Jace’s Grandfather, Jace’s sister Lydia, fate, life, and every feeling she ever had that complicated life so much before came surfacing back.
    On the weekend before she was to leave, Jace asked her to dinner and Cambri soon realized it was a goodbye dinner. Had she just managed to fall in love again with someone who was going to reject her. Again.
    Would they ever right the wrong that was done so many years ago? Would they quit running from each other? With the waves of each new memory will they make their way back to each other or lose each other forever and never right the wrongs done so many years ago.







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    Eating Healthy On The Go – Faithful Finish Lines


    Well, I had started “getting my healthy on” at the beginning of the year and had a couple of setbacks so here it is the middle of February.

    I went on an overnight trip this past weekend and to top it off, I went with one of the most health conscious women I know :)  So I knew sweet tea was out, and eating as I wanted was out!

    God blessed me with going on the trip with a friend that kept me accountable, and the will-power to do it all the right way.  Celeste is an amazing Christian friend so her accountability with me is more than just healthy.  I love her asking about prayer life, and Bible Study and she is an incredible mentor also.  Her knowledge in the Bible is just incredible


    Before I left, I bought lemons, limes, strawberries, blackberries, oranges, cucumber and grapes.  I sliced them all up and prepared them in freezer bags and froze them the night before.  For infused water and quick, reach in snacks.

    I also made ready,  snack bags, with single servings of goldfish, vanilla wafers, and then had some chewy 90 cal oatmeal bars and them some filler club and jalapeno cheese crackers,  I was going to be equipped to eat right!  Not to buy anything and to eat/drink healthy

    We left Friday before lunch and that was a little different, because my husband made my lunch and so I had a typical ham sandwich and a bag of chili cheese fritos.  I had already gotten my tea for the day so I was working on that and strawberry/blackberry infused water.

    Had he put mustard instead of mayo, it would have been a pretty decent lunch.  We drove all the way to Austin without stopping to eat.  Just had a little snack of about ten wafers.

    When we got checked in, we went out to Applebee’s,  My friend only eats fish so she decided that their fish plate (*only fish they have, which surprised me).  I opted to the Asian Pineapple Burger and this was my huge splurge for the weekend.  When I looked it up after the fact, I knew I couldn’t eat one again.  So there is another thing that I have to quit eating. (they are my go to pick when we go to Applebee’s).

    So we are back at the hotel and I went down to the hot-tub (*and I forgot my swimsuit) so I am in my pants and rolled them up, and started breaking out in hives from the heat of the hot-tub LOL.   I thought, geez, what else?  So I went on to the fitness center.  I was able to walk 5 minutes at the speed of 2 and on a 10% grade.

    WOOHOO,  Go me!  I thought, about what an accomplishment this was for me, because of being in a wheelchair so much.  I was so proud of myself.  What an accomplishment that was for me?  

    God was so good!

    So the next morning we got up and had the continental breakfast and it was actually really great, oatmeal, yogurt and juice, great breakfast, great numbers.

    We went back to the room and knew that I had a 4 hour drive after the concert that night so I took a good nap and rested really well.  Then we checked out and went and were looking for Jason’s Deli or McAlisters and ended up at Luby’s.  

    I was able to get the Senior LuAnn Plate of baked white fish, steamed veggies and then split carrot and raisin salad and coleslaw.  My numbers for that meal were fantastic and I was very proud of myself for eating very healthy.

    I kept my Fitbit on for the weekend and apparently I either cleared it at one point or wasn’t wearing it in a good place, because I didn’t have the total number of steps.  I am still trying to find the numbers for the weekend;  Pacer didn’t keep it either.  That was very disappointing for me.  We went to the state capitol building and then the church was gynormous, so even rolling in my chair, I know I did a lot.  I know on Saturday I walked over 5000 steps though and that is my goal, so I reached my steps goal once

    I had drunk orange and cucumber infused water all day so far, so I filled that up with ice and new fruit and fresh water and all together for the short 30 hr trip, I think I drank about 180 ozs of water, so the infused water is working wonders for me.

    You can infuse it with anything like, lemons, limes, cucumbers, strawberries, blackberries, oranges, or whatever you might want and then mix and match as you will.  The one that was the best so far has been the strawberry and blackberries. It was so easy to prepare ahead of time also, just get them ready to eat and run them through the colander to clean them.  Get your Ziploc bags ready and just put them in it, if they have water in it, that’s okay because that’s just extra ice for you. 


    I bought a great water bottle that has an infuser in it for less than 6$ at Wal-Mart.  I love the bottle for what it does, however, I need an insulated one, because I love water ice-cold and this bottle doesn’t hold ice (*that’s just one of the reasons why the frozen fruit was a blessing)


    I packed my cooler of fruits and my cooler of water bottles and I was ready for the weekend as far as fruit and water goes. A blessing I have is that fresh fruit and fruit juices, do not make my blood sugar go up.  I didn’t add anything extra to the fruit either, just plain, fresh fruit!

    Okay after the concert we were starving so we popped into McDonald’s and I got McChicken plain and dry and put honey mustard on it.  This meal was the one that surprised me the most.  The numbers on it, were actually half way decent except for the sodium (I knew that going into the meal though) So all in all, it was a great weekend for my diet, my blood sugar and steps.  Every blood sugar has been under 250 and for me that was a new goal met!!!

    I was really pleased with my “food” behavior this weekend.  Something that I am not normally good at.  Especially when traveling,, I usually tend to eat what I want when I am traveling.  

    I met some goals, I surpassed some goals and I failed some goals through accountability, prayers and giving the entire weekend to God before I left made this a very healthy weekend for ME based on my normal way of life.  

    Thanks to Faithful Finish Lines for letting me have the membership that I do to their program for a limited time in return for blogging my experience.





    Gaither Vocal Band – Road Trip and Girl Time

    IMG_8114The Gaithers hold a very near and dear place in my heart. As a child, I can remember my mother listening to the and her singing her favorites and just belting out to the words. She loved them, and I loved to hear her sing! So when I was able to go to the concert and review it, I jumped at the chance! Who cares that it was 4 hours away!! Who cares that I had to drive over 300 miles one way to go see them!

    That was the blessing in this. Getting to spend quality time with a very sweet friend of mine. Celeste is a person who is always giving back to our community. So I asked her to go with me, and it was all going to be my treat and let her enjoy someone pampering her for a change and being able to give back to her!


    I received these tickets from Family Christian Stores in exchange for a few social network shares which you can find on my Instagram, Twitter and Facebook (Links at the bottom)  There are MANY other opportunities throughout the nation to see them during the upcoming year and you can check that out HERE.

    So about the concert.

    Kevin Williams, the band’s guitar player started us out with a couple of old sing-along hymns.  we were in a church that holds about 2500 seats.  Imagine an old-time gospel singing with a new technological twist on it.  It was AMAZING!!! Jesus had definitely made His place into the venue!  What an amazing time of praise and worship we had!

    We had seats on the Mezzanine floor and had a perfect view to the front of the stage.  I mean, 50 yard line, center stage, center church, perfect seating!  Here is a look at my view.


    That’s Kevin on Stage.

    Next Bill Came out and introduced Charlotte Ritchie and then Gene McDonald, after singing How Great Thou Art by Himself. Oh my, I just love Bill Gaither’s voice! To hear him singing that old hymn, and have that many people singing along with him, just fantastic! God is so great!!!

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    Then he introduced the rest of the Gaither Vocal Band, which consist of David Phelps, Wes Hampton, Adam Crabb, Todd Suttles and Matthew Holt on Piano and Greg Ritchie on Drums and I never DID get the fiddler’s name and that was frustrating because he was INCREDIBLE!!!  To hear these 5 men sing in harmony all the new songs they sang and the old ones that are near and dear to my heart, I went into a whole different phase of Worship with our Lord!  What a blessing we had!



    They all were!!!

    I had the best time, as did my friend.  We enjoyed the music, the comedic banter between Kevin and Bill and just the overall performance.  It was a very worship-filled treat for us.

    After the group came on and sang some new songs, then David sang an operatic tune,

    We took an intermission, then came back to a medley with all performing the old songs from the Gaithers like

    He’s Got The Whole World In His Hands
    Jesus is With Me When The Storm Comes
    He Touched Me
    There’s Just Something About That Name
    Something Beautiful

    They sang a prayer song  which  Gloria and Bill wrote for their children, called Shepherd, then more oldies like I believe In A Hill Called Mount Calvary

    Then Charlotte and David backed up by the group, sang Go Rest High On That Mountain. This song is so special to me because it was sang at my daddy’s funeral and was so fitting for his life. Brought me to tears.

    Each vocalist sang a song that highlighted their talents, so that was an enjoyable to hear them in their own element and featuring their God-given gifts.

    Each song,  touched my heart in either of a few ways,

    1) Because of my mother,

    2) Because they are just flat-out amazing

    3) To hear the reasons the songs came to be, or a story that went with the song.

    It was just a really, super, worship-filled night

    The staff at the church was so helpful and so kind as well as all the staff at the hotel we were at.

    Thank you Family Christian Stores for an amazing night out with the Gaithers.

    If you get the chance. You need to go see them! Who ever imagined, that an old-time gospel group could bring such a very entertaining concert. However, I KNEW that God was in that place and He was praised.

    I left with a heart full of worship and special night of the Gaithers and the memories that their songs bring to my heart and then the very special memories that some songs brought because of the way they intermingled in my life experiences.



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    The Advocate – Randy Singer and a Giveaway


    This book has many rave reviews.  I mean serious rave reviews I wanted to love the book, and as I did read it, going into it, the first 5 chapters, Part 1, The Student, I loved.  Understood and could follow.  Then, for me, it started getting difficult for me to understand and I’m not sure if it was difficult, or I just didn’t like the book.    I am very ADD and when I read the book, I was thoroughly confused.  What irks me about all of this, is even though this is a fictional book about an advocate who his first trial,

    Altered the course of history and his last, will change the fate of an empire. (Direct quote from the back cover)

    Okay about the book.  I made it to chapter 25 before I just couldn’t understand anymore about where I was in the story, or who the majority of the players were.

    Now I got to the part where Christ was presented before Pilate after his night of being found guilty by Herod.

    For me, I was not going to finish the book and knew this after about 5 chapters.  I tried to go further into the book but just couldn’t.  However, please do NOT let this deter you from the book.  Regardless of my review, for a normal reader that loves Christian Historical Fiction, this book should be a great read.  One that touches your heart and one that just draws you in from the get-go.

    Had I had a map, something in writing with the characters and how they’re related (there was a list in the front of the book, for me it wasn’t enough.  Enjoy this book, know that it has huge responses and has extreme rave reviews.

    The author has a study guide and a 4 week course on his website.

    Book Description

    Since I can’t review the book, here is the description of the book and the details

    Follow what law and legal representation was like in biblical times with Randy Singer’s Christian historical fiction Advocate: He Defied an Empire & Inspired a Faith.

    At the trial of Christ, Theophilus, brilliant young “assessore” raised in the Roman aristocracy, stands behind Pontius Pilate and whispers, “Offer to release Barabbas.” The strategy backfires, and Theophilus never forgets the sight of an innocent man unjustly suffering the worst of all possible deaths–Roman crucifixion.

    Three decades later, Theophilus has proven himself in the legal ranks of the Roman Empire. He has survived the insane rule of Caligula and has weathered the cruel tyrant’s quest to control the woman he loves. He has endured the mindless violence of the gladiator games and the backstabbing intrigue of the treason trials.

    Now he must face another evil Caesar, defending the man Paul in Nero’s deranged court. Can Theophilus mount a defense that will keep another innocent man from execution? The advocate’s first trial altered the course of history. His last will change the fate of an empire.

    Randy Singer has a 4 Week teaching program with a study guide on his website and you can find that here


     There is also an author Question and Answer interview and you can find that here.


    Below is my giveaway sponsored by Family Christian Stores


    Click Here for the Giveaway : The Advocate

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    Failing Miserably #FaithfulFinishLines

    Faithful-Finish-Lines-e1419871290304 Well, I have had four goals so far,

    1. Stop sweet tea
    2. Bring my blood sugar and blood pressure down by exercising more
    3. Eating better
    4. put 5000 steps on a day

    Welp. I have failed on the tea, done so, so on the exercising. Since I am in a wheelchair, I am not letting people push me, using my legs and upper arms. Sometimes. There are just days, that this body can’t push this body around. As far as diet, I totally bombed this past week.

    Also consistently only having 1500 – 2000 steps a day.
    Almost a month of failures.

    Now, that being said, I lost 35 lbs of fluid so my scale numbers look great, fantastic, amazing!

    It’s so fake. I realize that I am on an uphill drive from the get-go. Because of my illnesses, it makes it very hard for me to exercise.

    Exercise is the ONLY thing that is going to allow me to lose the weight (other than the fluid)

    So as I lay here in bed. Encouraged by YOUR stories of success, and by knowing that I have a God that wants me healthy and Up on my own, sans wheelchair, (I know this because there are days now that I actually can walk half way decent and I don’t end up dragging my feet or humped over in so much pain that I am walking like an old woman with the curved spine. No offense to anyone that has the beginning of that curved spine.
    So here I am enjoying my fake weight loss, enjoying my great food, and enjoying my sweet tea.

    So I have new goals of stopping sweet tea starting at Lent (but NOT the caffeine) where my failure arose.
    Pushing my doc for the pulmonary/cardiac rehab so I can Exercise under the ability of a trainer.
    And no more splurging at Jalapeño Tree © or my favorite burger joint (I have $300.00 in groceries to prove that – why does it cost so much to eat healthy now?) and walking more and more, or making sure that I push my wheelchair myself

    Isn’t it amazing that we have second chances. God also gives us those second chances, and third and fourth etc, etc.

    Isn’t that awesome! When we fail to God, all we need is to ask His forgiveness, try your best NOT to complete that sin again (which every goal I failed was a sin)

    Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, 1 Corinthians 6:19

    So as I work towards these old goals and start setting new goals, my prayer is that God will allow my body, the strength I need to get through EACH goal, one step at a time.

    Thank you Lord, for second chances, thank you Lord for failures, that drive us to successes!!!

    I am part of a network called Faithful Finish Lines.
    The encouragement, the help with goals, the accountability!

    You should go check this out and see if it’s for you!!!








    As a blogger, I received a free membership for 7 weeks. In return for an honest review and to blog about this each week (another failure of mine lately)



    Library Reading Program

    What a blessing I had this morning!

    I was so blessed to read to 6 beautiful souls at our library today and we had a

    really great time reading



    This sweet little book tells about Bunny Gray who is trying to find that perfect valentine for his friend Rosie.  This beautiful book Kneen illustrated just perfectly and has interactive pages.  Margie Kneen, the author and illustrator has made it just perfect for little minds to feel, see, and sense by making each page, a “gift” that Bunny would love to give his friend, but as you open each interactive flap, it goes on to tell you how each “gift” that is illustrated with shiny, metallic, materials, and a full sensory touch illustration is really a gift we already have from the heart part of nature and that is the best gift for Rosie.

    This was one of the most beautifully illustrated books I have had the pleasure of reading for a young child.  The book reminds me of a painting on every page.

    While the concept might be a bit older for the age levels it is written for, the book itself and the beautiful illustrations were pefect for this young of an age group.

    Being able to read to these beautiful children and their parents was such n incredible blessing.  I was so encouraged to see each parent/guardian so active and involved with their child where the reading this program was concerned.  Seeing the sheer joy on their little faces as they picked new books to check out and as they explored the library and every time the train came by seeing their little faces light up and go running off to the windows and doors!  I think I even saw some parents running off to see the trains also!

    I honestly have not had a better time spending a little time doing something I enjoy doing – reading.

    Thank you to Mrs. Hazel for giving me so much amazing help.  I could not have completed this morning without you.

    After we read, we all gathered together and did some painting that each child could take home as a gift to their FAMILY.  We used this craft I found on Pinterest

    I made the plain, unpainted TP rolls into the shape of  heart and taped them so that it would stay as a heart for little hands.  we used white latex craft paint and I poured some into a stack of coffee filters for each end of the table.

    The kiddos were able to take their TP Roll and dip it into the paint then “paint” their construction paper.  We had papers filled with hearts and then some papers that didn’t have very many.

    What we had was a beautiful collection of art made by 1-4 year old and the enjoyment that I had helping and watching these kids was again, an incredible blessing for me.

    Thank you to Miss Kelli for allowing me to read to the children and to the parents for sharing your children with me.

    This beautiful little sweetheart,  was my date for the morning and below is the artwork she completed.  I am just so grateful to programs like our Public Library and all the help you can get through their resources!


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    go check out our Public Library the old Depot Building

    Their website is http://www.grandsalinelibrary.com/

    or you can find them on Facebook and Twitter

    Gaither Vocal Tour


    Oh yes, I am going!!! I have privilege of sharing this evening with a very good friend and I absolutely cannot wait!

    I have grown up with the Gaithers. Them being my mom’s favorite group.

    I have seen them in concert before but there is something about seeing hem with a friend that I know enjoys them as much ad I do just makes it 100% better

    Add in the night at a great hotel and then\ spending the morning touring the Capitol Building!!

    With God showing up, there is no way it can go wrong: add in my great friend Celeste and the Gaithers and we are on for an amazing weekend!!

    and the Gaithers how on earth can it go wrong.

    Look at all of these products that you can buy ahead of time for the Vocal Band


    One of my favorite songs by them




    Get Directions
    Where: Riverbend Centre for the Arts in Austin, TX
    When: Saturday, February 7, 2015
    Starts: 6:00PM
    Doors Open: 5:00PM

    Buy Tickets
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    Ticket Prices: (Additional fees may apply.)

    Artist Circle: $35.00 – SOLD OUT!

    General Admission: $30.00

    Senior (60+): $27.00

    Child (2-12): $27.00

    Groups of 15+: $25.00
    Groups of 15 or more receive 1 FREE ticket!

    Group Tickets: Click HERE

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    For More Information: 1-855-484-1991 or email support@premierproductions.com


    Watch for some social media posts during the concert!!!  Can’t wait to see ya there!!

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    New Bible Study – Keep It Shut

    So fitting.  

    Proverbs31 Online Ministries will soon be starting their new Bible Study.

    It’s called Keep It Shut by Karen Ehman

    ‘In James 3, the Bible tells us  that the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things.

    …..but NO human being can tame the tongue.  It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

    With it we bless our Lord nd Father and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God.  From the same mouth come blessing and cursing

    Isn’t James just an amazing book of the Bible.  Such a small portion of the mighty sword.  And it can split you right in two if you don’t abide by it’s words, from start to finish.

    This Bible Study is about just that very thing.

    Ehman says  Next Study : Keep It Shut by Karen Ehman

    Let’s face it.
    We’ve all had days when we want to hide after saying something permanently painful, just because we were temporarily ticked off.
    What if we could somehow learn what to say, how to say it, and when to say nothing at all?
    Guess what! Karen Ehman’s newest book, Keep It Shut, helps us do just that.
    Mark your calendar for Proverbs31  next Online Bible Study!
    Starting January 26 – March 6
    In this 6-week study, we’ll learn:
    What the Bible teaches about making our speech laced with grace, as sweet as honey, yet seasoned with salt
    The difference between gossip and processing with a trusted friend
    Helpful ways for using our digital tongue as we talk online or on social media
    Go here to sign up or click on the picture below


    and Here to buy the book.  I am very encouraged about this study.  I know I need it.

    If God leads you to this study, Join Proverbs31.org OBS and dive into wht the Bible says about taming our tongue or even better, just Keep It Shut

    The Action Bible

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    It is  The Action Bible


    And you can find it here at Family Christian Stores

    Here is a great preview Video that shows the way it came to be.

    About Illustrator Sergio Cariello:

    At the age of 5, Sergio Cariello already knew he wanted to draw comics. At age 11, he already had his first comic strip, Frederico the Detective, published in local newspapers. At Marvel he has drawn for Daredevil, Conan, Thor, Captain America, Disney’s Quasimodo, Spiderman, the Avengers and many others.

    The Action Bible presents 215 fast-paced narratives in chronological order, making it easier to follow the Bible’s historical flow and reinforcing the build-up to its thrilling climax. The stories in The Action Bible communicate clearly and forcefully to contemporary readers. This compelling blend of clear writing plus dramatic imagery offers an appeal that crosses all age boundaries.

    Internationally recognized artist Sergio Cariello has created attention-holding illustrations marked by rich coloring, dramatic shading and lighting, bold and energetic designs, and emotionally charged figures. Let this epic rendition draw you into all the excitement of the world’s most awesome story.

    Product Details:
    Ages: 6 & up
    Page Count: 752
    Dimensions: 10.2″(L) X 6.7″(W) X 1.3″(D)
    Released: 09/2010

    Here are all the formats you can buy it and the devotional in

    Hardcover – Complete Bible $26.99
    Audio Book on CD (Unabridged):$29.99

    Softcover – New Testament:$16.99

    Audio Book on CD – New Testament:$15.99

    Softcover – Devotional:$17.99

    Audio Book on CD (Unabridged) – Devotional:$13.99
    Hardcover Handbook $17.99


    I did not have to review this, I just wanted to.  I am in love with this Bible for kids!

    Patient Advocacy Series: Taking Control of Your Health Care:  Some advice in Being a Responsible Patient

    This is the first in a series about Patient Advocacy, taking control of your own healthcare and being an informed patient.  I am not a nurse, or a doctor, I have just been in the medical system since I broke both of my legs at 2 years old.   I have been in an out of so many hospitals for various reasons.  16 corrective leg surgeries from when my legs were broke at age two, 2 back surgeries and the list continues.  Never take my advice for medical care.  My advice is given to you to help you maneuver the healthcare system in today’s day and times.

    I make no bones about the fact that I am disabled.  I started getting sick a LOT in 1984 and it continued off and on with several different things, a possibly fatal skin disease, severe blood poisoning, major anxiety and panic attacks, adult onset asthma, prediabetes, gestational diabetes, tachycardia.  I had two major bone grafts during that time from 84 to 91 and then started having major back issues.  I went in and out of care for therapy, injections, testing and more testing that all came to a head in 2001 with me ending up having major open back surgery in Jan of 2001.


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    At that time, I was pretty much under the assumption that the Dr was always right, and no matter what testing they ordered.  I said okay to.

    Then I had the surgery.  I laid 12 days flat on my back because of spinal cord fluid leaking.  I had the most incredible headache I had ever had in my entire life (after a history of migraines)

    Add to that a horrendous back pain from lying flat on my back for those 12 days so that no more fluid would leak.  While I had no more back pain from the injured back, I had surgical pain and the pain from just lying flat.

    Day 12 they helped me out of bed.  I promise you that day was the day that my entire life changed as far as my healthcare…  I will never forget it.  My dad and sister and children were visiting and they chose “that” time to “make” me get out of bed.

    I went through the most incredible pain I have ever felt that day.  As I was getting up, the spinal fluid shifted, and that was all it took.  I felt like my head was going to explode and my back was going to crumble.

    I totally loved my doctor, don’t get me wrong.  HE was amazing.  However, I realize I had been there that long and wasn’t getting any better laying there.  Why it had to be that moment, I will never understand.

    It literally terrified my dad and my sons.  The scream I screamed, was horrific.  Can you imagine screaming bloody murder because of the intense pain and your dad and children, out in the hallway?

    My dad hated hospitals to begin with, getting him there was an act of congress.  I can literally count on one hand the few times he ever came to see me after that in the hospital and there have been LOTS of them.

    I got up, I walked what they wanted, I left that hospital the next day and I never again, have taken a direct order from a nurse/doctor/therapist, etc. without question.

    Why are we doing this?  Is this something that has to be done now?  What are the side effects?  Why this test?  Why this medication.

    I am a very engaged, and very in control of my healthcare, kind of patient.

    I don’t have to do every single test, that they ask of me, I do not have to take every medication that they want to prescribe and then, I will choose which Dr. I want to see if a Dr is going to refer me out to someone else.


    So being that kind of patient, takes some work on my part, first.  I do not walk into a Drs Office without a list of medications, my diagnostic history with dates, a surgical history with dates and a list of my entire current care team. (I have a downloadable sample at the bottom of this post)

    You MUST be an informed patient also.  I also have a copy of my DNR, my Living Will and a copy of my formulary at the ready.  I use my smart phone for these things (and not “look them up” I mean in a file, ready to go)

    If you want to be in control of your healthcare, you must do the legwork.

    Every visit I go to, I have all paperwork, I ask for copies of everything and if it’s an apt with a new doctor or we are discussing something extremely serious, I will even video or voice record our conversation.  With the Dr’s knowledge.

    The Drs office is the worst place in the world to come up with the questions you want to ask.   I suggest, you open a file on your phone or keep a notepad with you specifically for a Drs visit (I have a journal and a notepad on my phone) and as I think of them between visits, I write them down, or input into my phone.

    Now all this being said, I try my best not to be demanding or rude, but I know what I will and will not do.

    If a doctor or care team cannot quantify my requests then, maybe I need to find a new care team.


    It’s pretty simple.  Be a patient that knows their own health inside and out and be in control and understand what’s going on, just like you want your care team to be.

    I have gone into anaphylactic shock from allergy shots, I have a latex allergy and there are many, many places/hospitals/Drs offices, etc., that while they say they look at your chart, let’s face it,  they may see 30 patients a day or more and frankly, reading everything in your chart is not something they are going to do.  They read the last visit, your allergies (if it pertains to them) and they will read the high points.

    So all that being said, here are a few things I do, to be totally in control of my healthcare.

    • The list.  Name, DOB, Allergies, Medications, with Dosages, last filled dates, and why you take them (there are some medications that are not prescribed for their original use), diagnostic history, surgical history and care team with addresses, hospital affiliations and phone numbers/fax numbers.
    • Get a copy of everything you sign and get a copy of the results of each test you have done. Thanks to Electronic Medical Records this is so much easier now.

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    • Be informed. If you are going to a doctor for a specific reason, you need to know what you are going for.  I’m not saying read the PDR on the subject but it doesn’t hurt to know the terminology and/or the things that are important to what you have the appointment for
    • Make a list of questions. Above all, do NOT wait till you get in the office.  You will NOT remember.  There is a real thing called White Coat Syndrome, it makes you forget, makes your BP go up, makes your heart rate go up and puts your entire body into an “alert” state of mind.  No matter how comfortable you are with your doctor.
    • BE HONEST. I cannot stress this enough.  If you drink alcohol or use recreational drugs or even vitamins and OTC meds. Those can and will interfere with some medications and or anesthesia.  It is VITAL that you be honest 100%
    • Keep your appointments or at least have the courtesy to cancel them. Dr’s are busy.  Waiting on a no-show apt, does several things.  It causes the clinic to work when they could have avoided, it delays the office while they are adjusting schedules on the fly and putting your records back where they belong.  It can also keep patients that need your appointment, from getting the care that they need.  It’s a courtesy.  Treat the office the way you want to be treated
    • Above all, if you cannot afford your copays and your percentage of testing etc., the doctor has NO CONTROL over that. Talk to the office staff.  They are your best person to discuss those things with.  Your nurse has no clue how much you owe, or how much your insurance will pay either.
    • If your doctor requires further testing, it is ultimately YOUR responsibility to follow through with your insurance company and make sure all certifications and authorizations are in place. It is also your responsibility to verify that each doctor, therapist, anesthesiologist, etc. are in your network.  Trust me, the hospital will not verify the ancillary staff.  They go with who is on rotation and put you in their rotation.  If you need a certain Dr, therapist, home health care, ancillary facility etc., follow-up and make sure they are in network for your insurance.  You are you best patient advocate.  NEVER assume that someone is going to do it for you


    • If you cannot afford a test that your doctor orders, as long as it is not elective, there are ways in place to help you pay for it. That doesn’t mean that they pay for it, it only means they help you make it where you can afford it and/or make it where payments are affordable.
    • Deductibles are expensive and it is required to be paid.  It is actually part of the contract your insurance company signs with the facility.  Ask for a payment plan, see if they have a cash percentage to help you pay in cash and/or talk to the financial help staff or patient advocate.  There are ways to get the care you need, when you need it.
    • If you are going through a catastrophic illness, like cancer or a transplant, etc. One of the things I remember our advocate telling us and it was one of the best pieces of advice I ever received.  Do NOT look at your hospital bill, while you are still receiving care.
      1. Because first you aren’t done with your care and you need to be focused on your health.
      2. You never know exactly what your insurance will end up paying
      3. If you don’t have insurance, there is a law, that healthcare facilities are required to treat you as long as what they are treating you for is medically necessary  and life-threatening (that’s two key words you need to remember)
      4. There is that white coat syndrome thing going on again in the background. And it goes back to you needing to focus on your healthcare
      5. When all treatment was over and we walked out of the hospital after my husband had his cancer and transplant and all the treatments etc. We ended up owing $150.00.  The amount of our deductible
    • If you are going to take control of your healthcare, take total control. You are the patient and it’s your body.  Yes the doctor has the degree, but I reiterate, you do not have to say yes to every single blood test, or diagnostic test.  Discuss it with your doctor.  Why?  What will happen if I don’t do it?  Is it medically necessary?  Is it going to make a significant difference in the outcome of my health in the long run?  Is there a test that can be done in place of a certain test that isn’t as expensive?  What are the side effects of this medication?  Is there anything I need to know about this medication, like can I be in the sun, drink milk, eat acidic fruits, does it need to be refrigerated.  Do I need to be sedated, will I need a driver, what are the lasting effects of the medications.  Is there an alternative to the medication like a natural solution etc. (if you believe in using them)
    • Ask the Dr to write the instructions in that journal I talked to you about, or better yet, ask them to repeat it and you write it in your hand writing.
    • Take someone with you.
    • Treat your entire care team the way you want to be treated, from the person that takes out your trash in your hospital room, to the person that takes you out to the car after a stay, your valet attendant, your check in person, the person that takes your blood pressure, etc. You may need something later, and that person might just be the person that can get it for you.
    • Believe in your care team. If you can’t trust them 100% or even any percent, it’s time to find another care team.  If you are in a place that you do need to find another care team, TELL the current one why.  They may have no clue that something is going on in that office/facility that makes you uncomfortable.  Communication is key with everyone.  Writing a letter firing your current provider is a normal thing.  They get it.  They understand it.  Now that being said, remember that if you are a very difficult patient they can do the same!
    • Except for mail in pharmacy(s). Pick one pharmacy (if you have insurance) and use only that pharmacy.  Also, one other thing I do, is I take every RX that I am given, back to my primary care physician and let him re-write it.  I have one Dr writing my RX and one pharmacy filling my scripts, etc for my diabetic and COPD medications because they are a specialty pharmacy(s) for that.  Now if you are a cash patient, it is totally understandable to shop around.  However, even if you have insurance, use the generic scripts at your major retailers.  If you are a cash patient and must use several different pharmacy(s) to get your meds reasonable, be sure and put where you get them filled on your Medical Record that you make at home.  Being up front and honest again, with your doctor about finances when it comes to your care is the only way he can treat you.  If you can’t afford a medication after you leave his/her office and find out the cost is gynormous, call them back and explain.  There are many alternatives to many medications.  Drs are going to try to give you the best, not because they make money, but because they want you to have the best medication for what you need.  That newest medication may or may not be the best also.
    • Never call your doctor and say things, like well it’s in my record, you know what it is, or you know it’s that little blue pill. Trust me, they don’t know.  When you aren’t in front of the doctor and he/she doesn’t have your record in front of them, they don’t know what illnesses you have, what meds you take, what insurance you have etc.  Now some Drs may know a lot of their patients by name and more than likely that is your family practitioners more than anyone but don’t expect them to know you by name, little blue pill, the one with the red hair etc.
    • If you call during clinic hours; know ahead of time, you aren’t going to get to speak to your doctor. They are in clinic seeing many other patients.  You probably won’t even talk to a nurse.  You will get voice mail.  Be specific, leave your full name, date of birth and exactly what you need.  They don’t need your life history.  Just your questions, statements.  Allow them 24-48 hours to get back to you, if it is an emergency, you need to be calling 9-1-1.  Now that being said, if it is a clinical emergency, like something hasn’t been done and you only have a day or so left to get it done paperwork wise or things like that, your best resource in that office is the office manager.  They have the access to the Dr. and the Staff to make things happen.
    •  Don’t get frustrated with staff when they ask you your DOB over and over and over. Sometimes several times in the same visit.  You could not be the only John W Smith in Podunk TX with red hair.  Patience is key.  It is for your own safety that they make sure they have the right patient and the right record in front of them.  In fact, get in the habit of saying, this is John W Smith DOB 1/1/1950.  It will help the Dr’s office out so much.  Also speak clearly, enunciate and be specific.  Usually the person answering your phone call more than likely is in a room with several other people and may not hear you

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    • Do not take no for an answer from your insurance company if they turn you down for a procedure or test or anything that your Dr deems Medically Necessary.  Appeal it, Ask for their Advocate, ask for Corporate.  Someone can say yes if the Dr. says it is a medically necessary procedure.
    • Last and certainly not least, above all, you never have to take no or yes from your insurance/Dr etc. You are the last say.  Granted, your Dr must make the orders, but you can say, no I don’t want that test, and yes I do, and if you are uncertain about something ask, if you want to know more, ask.

    Blank Medical Record File  Here is a downloadable file that is like the one I use.  The only thing I do not have on it is my pharmacy listings, but you could make your own space for it.  If you would like one in a PDF format please contact me below


    Everything that I have stated above is my opinion from my experiences with the health care system in the state of Texas.  I do NOT have any kind of medical license at all.  I will not give you medical advice.  What I am giving you are key guidelines to make your healthcare experience go easy and to help you maneuver the systems.   Above all, please seek your Dr’s care and advice and if you have a life threatening emergency please call 9-1-1

    Also my advice is given from the perspective of a person with Medicare.  Although most health insurances work the same way.  Just different ways of getting to the result.  The Insurance Company is there to make money, so approving your procedure is against their bottom dollar.  Go higher than Customer Service if you have to.   Another aspect is that I have not only been a patient for this many years, I have worked in a Family Practice Setting and in hospital/clinical side of things.   I’ve seen both sides and was very


    Watch for my next posts, on the best smart-phone apps to use to help you in medical care and also medical terminology that may be foreign to you.  If you have questions about either of these, please fill out the contact form and I will do my best to answer them in the next post.

    I will publish into this series once a week and you can find it on my blog, on both of my Facebook pages and every social media page that I have!  Here are the links!








    When The Game Stands Tall – Review


    Unwrapping the box, I discovered to my surprise, the copy of the movie contained a DVD and Blu-Ray copy of this movie, with a free code from Sony Entertainments to download a copy of the movie for your personal library.


    Family Christian has been a fantastic place for me to buy things and when I received this copy to review I was really thoroughly surprised that it had both in it!

    The Synopsis

    Inspired by a true story, in 2003, high-school football coach Bob Ladouceur (played by Jim Caviezel) and his De La Salle Spartans have just completed an incredible 151 consecutive victories and 12-straight state championships. While the team’s seniors receive offers from colleges all over the country, the advancing juniors look forward to making their mark.

    However, beloved “Coach Lad” has a brush with calamity, while the Spartans face their most-challenging, most-unpredictable season yet.

     After this Coach Lad must teach his players –   and the entire town – that it’s not about how you fall, but how you get back up


    His approach to the game, one that he has given most of his life to, is perhaps best summed up in this quotation from Matthew 23:13 that is recited onscreen: “Whoever exalts himself shall be humbled. And whoever humbles himself shall be exalted.” In other words, it is not about you, it is about others.

    My review:

    I loved this movie for the plain and simple fact, I love high school football!  When I first unwrapped it and just looked at the cover, I thought to myself another movie about Texas Football!!!  Boy was I surprised!!  Which was a great surprise.  When the game stands tall, was a really great movie about a fantastic coach named Bob Ladouceur.  “Coach Lad” was not only a magnificent coach, but an amazing man.  His philosophy on how to talk to teens was amazing,   I would have loved to have had a “Coach Lad” as a coach in anything I took.

    The main thing about this movie is that the kids respected him.  I mean really respected him,  Not only did they listen, they trusted.

    There was a lot of football in this movie and that in and of itself had me thoroughly enjoying it.  Also the back story of “Coach Lad” and his health as well as the interactions between each player and their friends, was really great.  I do not want to say too much, but let me just say that the back story was fantastic, sad, happy and very inspiring!

    There are some things to be concerned with as a parent.  An abusive father, a couple of curse words, and some other things  I’ve added the review from Plugged in Movie Review and they go through each situation that could be considered scary or derogatory.


    I would allow any preteen from 8 and up to watch the movie, although your younger kids, this would give you the perfect opportunity for some very good conversations about some of the things in the movie.

    and here is a great free resource that is downloadable to help you with this discussion from Plugged in Movie Review


     here is the official trailer of the movie


    Here is the Plugged In Movie Review of When the Game Stands Tall  http://www.pluggedin.com/videos/2014/q4/when-the-game-stands-tall.aspx




    I pray that you enjoy this movie as much as I did and that your family takes the opportunity to watch it together and use it as a jumping off point for a lot of great conversations between you and your kids.  Enjoy a great family night with the movie, some great popcorn and a warm fire!

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    Happy New Year


    Prayers that your year has been filled with blessings, that you are healthy and that you can put God first in everything you do.

    I have chosen not to make resolution this year but to choose One Word (#OneWord365) to describe  the direction that I would like my year to take

    My word is intentional,  I need to learn to live less out of habit and a lot more intentional in every action and reaction I have.                                                                                                                                                      

    From the dictionary

    1.  done with intention or on purpose; intended:
    an intentional insult.
    2.  of or relating to intention or purpose.8

    I want to be INTENTIONAL in my relationships, my actions, my diet, my health, but even more so, my relationship with Jesus Christ.

    I am reading the Bible through again this year with this reading Plan called Becoming His by Joanna Weaver that can be found at http://www.joannaweaverbooks.com/my_reading_plan.php

    God has blessed me so much in 2014 and the cold cliche’s just don’t sound sufficient.  He has been MORE than enough to me, and I know I need to give back to Him and make sure that I am in The Word. For me, it is not enough to read the Bible.  I need to go deeper, I need to understand what I have read.  So my prayer has changed, instead of God helping me “get through the Bible”  God please help me to understand each word, it’s meaning, it’s significance and how it relates to Jesus Christ and how I can use it in my life.

    Isn’t that amazing?  We have a blueprint for our lives, already written  We just have to read!

    Choose your One Word    #OneWord365  https://www.facebook.com/OneWord365

    I am a person that wants to know why.  I need to know why.  However, just this past year in 2014, I’ve realized that the why isn’t important of what WAS done.  the WHY is important in what you are doing!  

    I need to make sure that everything I do, I do intentionally to glorify God!

    That’s my #OneWord365

    praying you all have a very blessed year and that your year for 2015 is filled with Intentional actions, Intentional Worship and Intentional Purpose!





    Verio One Touch Sync Glucose Meter Review

    Blood sugar results. Your iPhone®.
    Together at last.

    Introducing OneTouch® Verio®Sync. The meter that automatically sends your results wirelessly to your iPhone, iPad®, or iPod® touch, using the OneTouch® Revealmobile app.

    Compatible with any iPhone, iPad or iPod touch, running IOS 5.1 or later. See full product specifications heresync_pod1_phone


    Okay, I have had a LOT of meters since I being diagnosed with diabetes Type 2 in June of 2001.   I mean a LOT.  It seems like my insurance is changing their “preferred” brand every couple of months and their “preferred” provider every couple of months.Now, that being said.  I was once again, asked to change meters.  So I went ahead and got the one I wanted instead.Let me just say, I LOVE this meter.  It is incredible!!  First, it is just so easy.  No controls, nothing hard, just really simple.  put a strip in, lance the finger, and suck the blood up!  How much easier does it get as far as meters go.Untitled

    But the most incredible part.  NO MORE LOGS!!!!  It automatically syncs with my iPhone. Also, you can set up alarms automatically based on how many times that you test, and your phone gives you a notification.  NO REASON not to test, or to forget to test, or whatever.  Testing regularly means your diabetes will be better controlled.

    Now, as far as I know it is only on the IOS Platform at this time.  The app is free and you can download it free from the App Store here:

    One Touch Reveal Mobile App

    OneTouch Reveal On the App Store

    and believe it or not, the meter is “preferred” on my insurance.  However, I opted to buy it so I could get it when I wanted it.

    Out of the box, you have a meter, a lancer, a USB cord and a charging block for AC charging.

    Easy Peasy.  The set up was also easy.  It syncs over  Bluetooth with my phone, and then it sets the date and time according to your wireless connection.  You do NOT have to be connected by wi-fi, but you do have to be connected by Bluetooth.

    These are all the things you can do through the app.

    The OneTouch® Verio®Sync Meter wirelessly sends blood sugar results to the OneTouch® Reveal™ mobile app. Once a blood sugar result is sent to the app you can:

    Tag the blood sugar result with a meal flag.
    Receive High and Low Pattern messages.
    Add carbs, activity, medication data and notes about your activities.
    Manually enter other blood sugar test results.
    Review results on graphs.
    Share your blood sugar results with others.
    Set reminders to prompt you to test, snack, exercise, order testing supplies, etc.


    It also has a light that you can turn on and off while you are testing, so no more bright lights in the middle of the night when you are sinking or you can just have an extra little gadget on it!  

    This is my actual meter. It is charging at this point, but I will show you a stock picture of the screen

     You can get a copy of the quick start guide here. 

    Below is the meter in action.  Check out this video:  

    I paid $29.99 from the One Touch Website and received it within a couple of days. I received 30% off and free shipping and that is a deal that is still going on now.  It took me longer to get the strips and lancets because of doctors and insurance and a new company and everyone wanting to be in control, however I was ready.  I firmly believe that I am the only person that can totally control my healthcare besides God.  I MUST be 100% in control of it, because no one else is looking out for my best interest, but that is a whole different blog series!!!  and I digress.
    Now the strips are only for use by any of the Verio machines, they are not interchangeable with any other OneTouch machine.  The Lancer, which is called a One Touch Delica.  I made a choice to continue using it, however, any Lancer will do.  It doesn’t even need to be a One Touch Brand.  Just  know if you use the Delica though, it has different kind of lancet (see all the pictures of everything at the bottom of this post)

    I am extremely happy with this machine and the user interface that comes from my iPhone 5.  (other platforms of iPhone are compatible, like the 4, 4S and 5C and 5S, iPad or iPod Touch running IOS 5.1 or later)

    I don’t think I have ever been this excited about using a meter.  

    Here is all the technical stuff that goes with the meter and instead of reinventing the wheel, I did copy this right off of the OneTouch Website so that I knew it would be exact based on their findings.  You cn find that information here

    All pictures and products are the property of OneTouch.  I have linked back to their website.  You can also find all information here.  http://www.onetouch.com/veriosync and  http://www.shoponetouch.com/product/onetouch-veriosync-system

    Test Time: 5 seconds
    Backlight: Illuminated test strip port and backlight
    Power source: Rechargeable Battery
    Battery life: 1 – 2 weeks between charges
    Memory: Stores up to 500 results
    Automatic shutoff: Your meter will turn off by itself within 10 seconds after sending results to the mobile device. In all other instances, the meter will turn off by itself if left alone for 2 minutes.

    Operating ranges:
    Bluetooth®: The meter and mobile device need to be within 10 feet of each other to pair and sync using Bluetooth® technology.
    Temperature: 50-111°F
    Altitude: Up to 10,000 ft
    Relative Humidity: Non-condensing 10-90%
    Hematocrit: 20-60%
    Individual Unit Weight: Approximately 1.7 ounces
    Individual Unit Dimensions: 3.94″ L x 1.63″ W x 0.46″ H

    Contents of the Box:
    OneTouch® Verio®Sync Blood Glucose Meter (with internal rechargeable battery)
    10 OneTouch® Verio® Test Strips
    OneTouch® Verio® Level 3 Control Solution
    OneTouch® Delica® Lancing Device
    10 OneTouch® Delica® Lancets
    Mini USB cable
    AC adapter
    Carrying case
    OneTouch® Verio®Sync Owner’s Booklet
    OneTouch® Verio®Sync Get Started Guide

    iPod touch®, iPhone®, and iPad® not included.

    Apple, the Apple logo, iPhone, iPad and iPod touch are trademarks of Apple Inc., registered in the U.S. and other countries. App Store is a service mark of Apple Inc.

    The Bluetooth® word mark and logos are registered trademarks owned by Bluetooth SIG, Inc., and any use of such marks by LifeScan, Inc is under license. Other trademarks and trade names are those of their respective owners.
    – See more at: http://www.shoponetouch.com/product/onetouch-veriosync-system#sthash.W5iRFyDb.dpuf



    I received NOTHING in exchange for this review.  I bought my meter and made this review on my own

    A Friend In Me #BookReview #FCBlogger

    CHT2HFPWUAMqPOj A Friend In Me – 
    How To Be A Safe Haven For Other Women –Bridging The Gap with Younger Ones
    Pamela Havey Lau

    This book starts off with the forward by Nancy Ortberg. Nancy asks the question “where are the mentors?  The ladies that would tell you (Biblically) whether or not your ways were sound principle or you were stepping outside of God’s word.

    Those women, that even if you were sick they brought the meals to help your family, or if you were in need, they did what they could, within their power to help you.  They showed love, not sat around and talked about it.  These women were any age, and any stage of Biblical maturity.  However, they gave grace, they gave mercy and they gave love

    Those days are gone or so I find in our area my church and in my area.  By most.  There are still a few that no matter what will offer their help and I know I am guilty of saying “well someone else will help them” That’s all mentality that our way to busy lives have led us too.

    Pamela Havery Lau, talks about just that, in her book about friendship and mentoring.

    Younger women long for relational connection with older, wiser, “been there, done that“women. As do older women want to seek out that relationship.  In some cases.

    Although in most instances there is disconnect between that generation gap. My thoughts are one because the older women are from a completely different generation and therefore that wonderful asset of knowledge goes untapped.

    As well as the knowledge that younger generations have with new and better ways of doing things.

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    That welcoming committee to a new church or a new neighbor. Just saying hello to a new person at their church? You never know when that stranger that just shows up that Sunday, all they need is someone to say hello to them. Because of a life broken, their walking in the door, was a struggle just in and of itself. Yet how many times does a stranger go unwelcomed at a church. We like to think that every person that comes through the doors of a church are greeted and met with the loving hearts we think we have, but do we? Or do we say, oh the ushers or pastor will talk to them, I need to rush out to get my kids the nursery so I will just let someone else handle it?? Or my dinner is going to be late if I stay very much longer, and I have a house full of family headed to my house right now.

    Things like that. Yet, it would only take a few minutes of your time to show someone love that may never get anywhere else. Then when we don’t even take the time to say hello in the church. Where is Christ in this? Did we show them Christ? Did you just walk by someone new in church today?  Or worse yet, someone that has been there as long as you?  Without saying hello or without even an out-reached hand to welcome that person there today?!?

    Now that being said, there is no way you can be everything to everyone. You must allow yourself some downtime. In doing so, you refresh your heart, you renew your spirit. Without your own emotional and spiritual refreshing you cannot be a good mentor to someone else. This means diving into God’s Word for your own healing and rejuvenation.  Also you can be a mentor at any age.  

    This statement from Pam on her website pretty much wraps up the entire premise of this book.

    “Every kind of Christian woman—conservative, moderate, liberal, suburbanite, city dweller, lover of liturgy, lover of charismatic worship, egalitarian, complementarian, single, or married—models and teaches something about God to the next generation. I have seen firsthand how difficult it has become for women across the generations to share deeply from their hearts, but I’ve got good news: I’ve also witnessed powerful transformations in women’s hearts when we finally do. For more than fifteen years I’ve spoken with all kinds of women who love God and want to make a difference by bringing God glory through their ministries, jobs, and families. In my conversations and prayers with them, we always come back to the condition of their hearts—something that is holding them back from deeply loving the younger women in their lives. These seemingly negative ideas of themselves or the ways they are being perceived can hold them back from sharing their faith out loud.”

    1. Silence – shut yourself down to the outside world and then invite the Holy Spirit to guide you into your own heart for healing of anything you need.

    2. Thanksgiving – exclaiming Thanksgiving to the Master.

    3. Self-examination – A time to look into your own heart and soul and ask God for forgiveness in what you may need

    4. Request – this is different from the asking in forgiveness. This may be something like asking God for the courage to go to that person that is new and you haven’t spoken to. Or the strength to go forward with something that you know in your heart is going to be scary to you.

    5. Write – always write! One of the ways Lau suggests, is this, to write a letter to someone you may be in conflict with either asking for forgiveness or offering forgiveness. Sometimes this just may not be possible, but writing the letter anyway is a good way of getting the anger out, whether you have been hurt by someone or you have hurt them. If you can’t get it to them, or there could be more harm done in doing so, writing and not sending is a great way to let the forgiveness come in your heart. You have done the act of forgiveness, and you do not have to do it in person if it could be harmful to you in anyway

    In giving yourself totally to God, there are several things you can do to get you into that place, instead of

    As you study this book, you may find that as you are doing things like mentoring and just helping with anyone who you can following that Acts1:8 mentality; once you start doing something, you must follow through.  However do not get that “burnt out” syndrome, where you start something and don’t finish it.  If you over schedule in doing so, you WILL end up losing the purpose of why you are there.  Jesus Christ… 

    I really love the idea of what Lau writes in A Friend In Me. I can’t think of anyone I know who hasn’t been hurt by someone and the resources she offers are just good sound advice. This book is based on Biblical principle and references a lot of verses. However it is a stand-alone book, on mentoring, healing, forgiveness and loving our neighbors (which includes anyone you come in contact with, at any point of your life.

    There is also a group of videos with discussion questions that you can find here!  I am so amazed at all of the resources that are available to work with when you dive into this book

    You can connect with Lau at the following sites
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    Pam Lau is the author of Soul Strength and numerous articles for such publications as Christian Scholar’s Review and Christianity Today. She has taught writing at George Fox University and speaks around the country at conferences and retreats. A graduate of Liberty University and Colorado State University, Lau lives near Portland, Oregon, with her husband and three daughters.
    Find out more about Pamela athttp://www.pamelalau.com.

    Also the Publisher and Pamela have made available to the public through Youversion.com a reading plan called A Friend In Me that can be found here https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/1586-a-friend-in-me

    I was gifted a copy of this book by Family Christian Stores

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    Colleen Coble’s Take it to the Beach Giveaway #BookReview #Book 5

    Will the promise Emmie makes to her friend mean the end to her dreams of a future with Isaac? Find out in book five, A Heart’s Promise, will the promise Emmie makes to her friend mean the end to her dreams of a future with Isaac? Find out in book five, A Het’s Promise, of Colleen Coble’s A Journey of the Heart series. Emmie Croftner let Isaac Liddle go to avoid telling him about her past. But Isaac remains determined to win Emmie’s heart and hand. Can she live happily without Isaac?

    Take a day off and head to the beach with a new giveaway from Colleen: five books (books one–five in Colleen’s A Journey of the Heart series) and a beach bag to tote your new books in!


    One grand prize winner will receive:

    • A copy of A Heart’s Promise

    • A Lands’ End beach tote

    • A copy of A Heart’s Betrayal

    • A copy of A Heart’s Disguise

    • A copy of A Heart’s Obsession

    • A copy of A Heart’s Danger

    Enter today by clicking the icon below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on July 31st. Winner will be announced August 3rd on Colleen’s website.



    My Review

    A Heart’s Promise (Book #5) picks up with Emmie, Amelia and Sarah all living at the Fort Laramie and getting along with their lives as soon to be moms.

    I must say upfront, this is NOT a stand-alone book.

    That being said, I loved this installment of the series.  Author, Colleen Coble, takes us on the journey of daily life at the post.

    While Emmie is dealing with the struggles of her past, she gets to see glimpses of her future in some different ways.  In doing so her faith deepens and she understands how valued she really is.

    It’s like the old cliché “don’t judge a book by its cover”

    In the end you find that God’s healing is of course, the things that brings this small, tight-knit Post back to His mercy and Grace.

    This part of the series is a clean, safe read.  It moves fast and from the beginning and keeps you interested through this small Novella.

    I am going to be very sad to leave these characters with the last part of the series coming soon!


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